m'kay. now i know how you feel. just at the beginning of this year, i had never grinded. here, we call it juking. now, what you gotta do is basically stick out yerr ass a little bit, bend yerr knees a lil, then move yerr ass in circles. eventually, make yerr circles increase and decrease and drop it low occasionally. soon enough, a guy will come behind you and put his hands on yerr hips or yerr thighs. back into him a lil so yerr bodies are rly close. then do what you were doing before only try to make it right on his crotch and rly get low. if a guy walks away, don't be insulted. just keep dancing like you did and another guy is gonna come around. guys also get turned on when two girls juke. it doesn't make you a lezbo or anything. trust me, guys think its rly hot. dont ask me why cos idk why.