Please give me some advice, I know this is long, but, please.:| -- LiveWire Teen Forums

Ok, so the lame-ass story is One of my friends got a boyfriend, he's a real jerk and she can't see that he's shitty to her, only does what he wants, and he's changing her completely. I work at the mall, and so did she, me and the rest of the people that we're in a close group of friends with work there as well. She quit her job right after they got together. Which shocked everyone, and the reason that she said that she quit didn't make any sense at all, her manager, who we all like, had to go in the bathroom at her work, and cry for that morning. Another of her friends, from a different store, is getting married soon, and she's supposed to be a bridesmaid, but she's blown off everything so far to do with the wedding. She just skipped the bridesmaid shower, cause she said she had a hair appointment, even though that was a lame excuse, the woman that's getting married understood, and just asked her to come when she could, cause she could care less if she got her anything, she just wanted her to be there. She didn't even get her hair done, she was at the mall with her asshole boyfriend, which was stupid of her to go there, cause she knew the whole mall would tell the girl that's getting married.
She just all of a sudden started ignoring me. And it was really getting to me. And when I say ignore, I don't mean that she just all of a sudden stopped calling me alot. I mean that she point blank ignored me when we were both in the same apartment, and other places as well.
So I messaged her and asked why she hated me all of a sudden, and she denied everything and acted like I was just making it up.
So I got one of our friends(she's friends with both me and her) to three-way her, with me on the line, cause I knew she would never answer the phone if I called her. She acted like I was insane and making everything up, denied everything about any specific time, and kept saying that I could have made the effort to talk to her, and I told her I did, and she just started talking in a big circle, every time I made a point she would go back to something she had previously said, so we weren't getting anywhere.

And then she just point blank told me that she didn't wanna go through this, and that she didn't want to patch things up, which is why I called her, and that's what I told her I was calling for at the beginning of the conversation. And then she told me to leave her alone, and hung up on us.
I really like her, as a friend only, like, whenever I was on work or break I would go down to her store and ask if she needed anything, or if she needed me to go and get her some cigarettes or food...She even fucking helped me pick out my mothers birthday present.

It just really upsets me that she went from being a really really really good friend of mine, to hating me over an asshole boyfriend. I told her that she would end up with no one to go to whenever he left her, or did something to her.

It just, I dunno, I don't know what to do, it's really hurting my feelings.

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