I would like to keep this account anonymous because originally this is AntiCare. I've been waiting for awhile to reopen my account to say this. Yet, it's taking to long.. and the urge to say this is killing me. Please don't check who this account is. Thanks. Anyway I myself was born with Spinibifida. As I was being developed the spine in my back had broken in the process. Causing me to loss feeling and nerves in
my legs. It doesn't mean it affected my brain.
I'm really sick of everyones looks. I couldn't care less about the disgust looks. It's just the looks of pity. I assure that just because I can't walk it doesn't mean I'm limited by things. I can and have done everything I wanted. Here's an example of a view:
dancing
water guns
Basketball
Jumped roped
Camping
Rock climbing
White Water Rafting
Soon-doing the zip line
I walked- at a younger age using a standing frame.Moving the frame from side to side.
Yet, the looks of pity towards me aren't the only ones that make me sad. It's the looks of everyone with a disability. I assure just because they are limited in speech,hearing,seeing, movement in body, and just stuck in your own world it doesn't mean they aren't capable of not doing anything.
I knew a girl who was paralyzed from the neck down. (she died last year) She had a heart of gold. I remember just looking at her like someone without a disability. I even looked her solely in the eyes when she spoke to me without feeling pain towards her. She was very creative in thoughts.
I also knew two kids with autism. I never compared severities between the two. The reason because just like everyone else they are two different people with weaks and strengths. Everybody has that.
I would just like to clear up that you shouldn't pity anyone. You know why? Because I damn assure you they are capable of doing something. I for one was motivated by others by being able to look past my own disability and stopped sucking in the pity I had seen. around me. They to have a purpose to be here. Don't feel sorry..