Turn offs (not in order)
#1. Very Conservative, which means that if she is very conservative, well, that could get annoying.
#2. Sluttiness. I just don't want other guys to check her out.
#3. Flirting with other guys.  I wouldn't flirt with other girls~
#4. Blonde Hair.
#5. Snotty. I hate people that think that they are better than everyone else.
#6. If she's a hick... . I don't like those kind of girls.
#7. If she has a Southern accent, well, I think that type of talking is just annoying.
#8. No interests.
#9. No work ethic.
#10. Oblivious to the world around her.  

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Hope
Hype

Turn off:
Mean
Drunk
Drugs
Lies
Wimpy
Blonde
Self centered
Bad teeth
Too much body Hair
No job

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"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

Turn offzz--
Littlez

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ska ska ska -Jamaician Ska-

Christianity - It's nice to have a guy oot there that believes in and worships God

Opinionated - I don't want a guy who always agrees with everything I and everybody else says.

Piercings - The more, the better

Gross-out Humor - I dont want a totally stuck-up dude who'll think it's gross when I burp

Good taste in Music - He CANNOT listen to Britney Spears or anything.  It bugs me when all some people listen to is mainstream

Books - I want someone who has Stephen King novels I can ... borrow ^_^**

Turn-Offs:

Wimpy - I don't want a guy who'll cry if I hit him.. softly

Preppy - ...All the guys like this are afraid of me, so.. ummm yah ... teehee :)

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Cryptorchid

I have to agree tht tight asses are the hottest...none of this flabby shit...gross!
How are u supposed to spank tht?

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"selfishly walking through, killing the angels"

Turn ons:

1) Clingy: It shows me that the girl is not just dating me because she has nothing better to do on a Saturday night.

2) Musical: I would love a girl that doesn't like a song simply because it is a chart topper. And hopefully she doesn't like any sort of rap or pop.

3) Bi-sexual: This is so awsome. A girl friend that you can walk around with and have discussions of hot movie stars and such.

4) Open: Someone who I don't have to worry around, and I won't be afraid to say the wrong thing.

5) Aggressiveness: A girl that makes it known that she wants YOU is sexy. She makes you feel awsome, and not just some lout that she happens to get along with.

6) Medium build: A girl that isn't extrmely skinny or toned is IMHO perfect. Average sized breasts and a flat stomach. No fat or too much is just...

8) Shaving: I dont care about the legs so much, but pubes that you need to use a weed whacker on are just gross.

9) Smart: Someone who is smart, but not In-your-face-more-holy-than-thou kind of smart.

10) Strong will: A girl that doesn't go out and buy something she saw in a magazine simply because it told her to is freaking awsome. I would love her to death.

11) Passionate: Emotions are addicting chemicals, and if you have a lot I am bound to get addicted to you :P

Turn offs:

1) GAMES: Ugh! I hate it when you take a girl out on a date or ask and she plays GAMES with you.

2) Judgemental: A girl that blows you off simply because you don't have a certain color of eyes or you are not funny enough to keep her entertained all freaking day long.

3) Uptight: A girl that won't tell me how she feels (ANY girl, including friends) just pisses me off. I am not asking you to spill your deepest darkest secrets, I just want to know how you feel.

4) Shy: A shy girl scores low on my list. I'm sick of the same old shy and cute routine. It's boring.

5) Bitchy: I deal with enough shit during my day. I don't need your bad attitude or complaining about everything all the time.

6) Fake: Mall trash. Need I say more?

7) Tease: It's ok if a girl is a tease and you are seeing each other, but when she plays with you and she doesn't even like you...

8) Follows dating "rules": Look, if I take you out, buy you dinner, then take the time to get to know you, its obvious I really like you. Oh noes! I might say that I think you are really awsome and that I like you! RUUUN! Major turn off.

9) Rude, obnoxious, etc: I don't care if you make some dirty jokes, infact it is a turn on. But when you are a loud mouthed slob...

Turn Ons:

1. Smart: Not God-like smart, but intelligent enough to keep it interesting

2. Jackass: This one is hard to explain. It kinda goes along with being smart. When we are alone and being serious I want her to be smart, but otherwise I want her to just be cool, and screw around.

3. Longer Hair: I don't know I just get wrapped up in a girls hair. It is just nice to see girl with beautiful long hair.

4. Reads: I like a girl who will read a book for fun. Not all the time. Just whenever she feels like it.

5. Music: She has to know music. We don't have to have the same tastes, but I would at least like her to know who I am talking about.

6. Active: She doesn't have to be fit per se, but just active, as in, if we were playing a game she would participate and really try to win, so like competitive as well.

7. Nerdy: She has to be fairly nerdy, because I am and it is just something attractive to me.

8. Interest in electriconic: She likes the hi tech market, like computers, and mp3 players and everything that goes along with them.

9. Romantic: She wants to be loved and to love. She likes all the sappy romantic things every once in a while like cuddling on a bench in front of a fire all night looking at the stars.

10. Confident. I don't like when a woman acts sexy. I like it when a woman knows what she has and what she doesn't and hi-lights her good features without displaying the bad. Meaning even big girls can appeal sexually if they dress and hold themselves right, not letting it all hang out.

P.S. I like taller girls because I am pretty tall. I am 6' 3 1/4" and I'd like a girl who is considered pretty tall for a girl.

Turn Offs:

1. Lying: Can't stand this more than anything. Be completely honest and completely straightfoward.

2. Stupid: Don't hate them, but it makes them less appealing.

3. Mean, Bitch: She has to be kind and sensitive to others feelings, but not too much so.

4. Goody Two Shoes: She has to act bad sometimes. I am not speaking just sexually and the like but all around slightly bad.

5. Wrong Clothes: Just girls wearing something that just comliments all their poor features. Guys are still going to know they're there, but we don't want to see them.

6. Skinny: I like a bigger girl with some meat. She doesn't have to be toned or completely thin, she just has to hold herself so she looks good, like every girl can do.

7. Too Flirtatious with other guys: I just can't stand that. If you are with someone casual flirting is okay, but nothing past. Sorry if it sounds controlling.

8. Snobby: Just wrong.

9. Low Self-Esteem: Don't put yourself down and the such. Take compliments when people give them.

10. Extremely Shy: I like a little shy, but extremely shy is just impossibly hard to understand and talk with.
:)

(Edited by Escthworld at 12:59 am on Aug. 24, 2004)

Turnoffs
1. Stupidity
2. Uber-Confidence
3. Religious
4. Republican etc :p
5. Serious problems.. -addictions, going over too much to the 'dark side', etc
5. Druggie
6. Whore
7. Not honest with self
8. Let's others rule his own life, like friends or parents, or NINTENDO(see #5, addictions...).
9. Bad/Rude attitude -like some skater's attitudes..
10. Material Boys -guys who care more about looking good then having a good time..

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i was swimming in the caribbean-Pixies
We hope your rules and wisdom choke you now we are one in everlasting peace-Radiohead

You better get a better attitude or women of all ages will reject, they probably already have.

1. Compassionate: I need a guy who will understand how I feel sometimes and won't pitty me or tease me for it.

2. Honesty: If he lies, he's gone.

3. Pureity: He shouldn't follow the crown and be like everyone else.

4. Respect: It would be great for him to have respect. Not only for me, but others as well. Especially towards girls, don't call any girl a bitch, slut, whore, etc.

5. Open: He should not mind if I'm a little off or if I have some crazy ideas.

6. Cuddly: He's got to be able to understand that I am sensitive sometimes and every once in a while, small things are great like just a little hug or kiss on the forehead for no reason.

7. Sensitive yet mildly aggressive: I'd like him to be sensitive. Such as If something horrible happened to him, it's okay if he cries, I'll be there to comfort him.Ang, he should have some mild aggresion. He shouldn't cry if he gets a low grade on something. That's pathedic.

8. Good-looking: No, you don't have to be beautiful. Chances are, if I like you, you'd probably be beautiful to me anyhow. I'm very lenient about this, beacsue I go for thousands of different types of looks. I mean, I'll from Johnny Depp to Adrien Body.

9. Age and height: I know, this is horrible of me, but I really don't think I could date a guy younger or shorter than me. I don't care if you are the same height, or even 10 months younger. I'm not that paranoid about it. I try to be good about it, but it's okay, because the guys i naturally go for are usually what I like.

10. Sweetness: Like I said earlier, the small little actions or just sweet, and there is nothing wrong with showing me you like me every once in a while, because I'll do the same.

Turn-offs'

1. Teasing: Don't tease me or play mind games with me. It's just not cool.

2. Awkwerdly skinny: Just...no, don't be a twig.

3: Ruse: God, I hate a rude guy, who is all sassy and...rude!

4. Ashamed: Don't be ashamed of yourself or me. Don't ignore me when I come up to you when you're hanging out with your friends.

5. Unreliable: Make me know that you are there for me when I need you, or I can call you when I need you.

6. Stupid: No, I don't mean you have to be a straight A student, God, I'm not even a straight A. I only mean that you have to be smart not only regularly smart, but smart about people and other things, clever.

7. Hurtful: I think any girl would say that they don't want their guy to hurt her, not physically but emotionally. I say it because a few guys that I have had more than a regular crush on, like I wanted to be with them so bad, they all threw me in the dirt after preteneding to like me.

8. Non-communitive: Self-explanitory.

9. Non-open: Like I said before.

10. Hesitation: Don't hesitate to tell me what's on your mind or anything like that.

I know this is desperate sounding, but if any guy out there is willing to talk to me, even maybe as just a friend, I'm 15 and my screen name for AIM is Ther By A Needle. Really, I just like to meet knew people, so any grils who just wanna talk is cool too.

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But it's not true, I don't need you. Don't waist my time and don't waist mine. I'm not your friend, won't soothe your soul. And in the end....you're