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Your Top 10 Turn-Ons/Turn-offs
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madamemixtape


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Im heteroflexible
Small breasts
Thin (With curvy hips and big thighs. Im unproportionate)
5'6
Good butt
Intelligient. not book smart
VERYYYYY straight forward! I think thats my mainpersonality trait
Along with that Im very opinionated and stubborn (I agree religious people ar elik ethat, then try to  shove their beliefs into your head. Im agnostic)
Im not geeky but I play video games sometimes and own guys at fighting and racing games
I listen to underground or good commercial artists hip hop and rnb. Not some lil wayne kiss fm pop crap

You have weird taste though... if this is your critique youre ognna have a hard time

My list:
Independance
Acts older than their age
Good sense of humor
Common sense
Good music taste
Dark hair
Assertiveness
Street swagger
Nice arms
Knows how to handle a girl

Turn offs:
Liars
Cheaters
Bad hygiene
Poor me! syndrome
Tight pants
Makeup
Skinny and untoned
Control freaks
Guys that claim youre perfect
BS! I know know to detect it now -_-


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cali chick


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Turn offs:
he does take care of himself
conceited
bad personality
cheats
wear tight pants that i cant even get into
drinks to get drunk and act stupid
over protective
cries constantly
lies
no sense of humor

Turn Ons:
football player[buff]
in shape
taller then i am
nice teeth
likes to party[ just not too hard or too often]
nice hair [that i can put my fingers through]
clean face [acne is a no no]  
smells good
big hands
sense of style
drives fast


[i can go on and on]


Post edited at 10:34 am on June 26, 2008 by cali chick


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RainBowBow


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Good post lol

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Rubyy


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Turn Ons...

-Nice teeth, a MUST
-Taller Than Me
-Good Sense Of Humour
-Intellgent, No One Likes An Idiot
-Wide Shoulders(Men), Curvy(Women)
-Nice ASS
-Sensitive But Not Overly Emotional
-Easy Going
-Out Going
-Not Too Quiet, Non-conversation Starter

Turn Offs..

-Manky Teeth UGH!
-Too Skinny, There's Nothing To Hold Onto!
-Crap Music Taste!
-Up Their Own Arse
-Always Talking About Themselves
-Arrogant/Ignorant
-Bad Hygiene
-Lazytness
-Obesity, nothing personal... Just doesn't do it for me.
-Paranoia, it's just not attractive.


:D thats mine anyways, (:


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sarahb


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aha, funny thing
i am pretty much that list
except for the geeky part
and the tease thing, i hate to admit
oh, and i don't believe that age should be a boundary
unless it's like... hugh hefner type of thing

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Assaultrifle


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Heres my list. Im a straight guy btw.

Turn Ons:

1. Nice ass
2. Kindness
3. Likes and supports the military
4. Is someone i can get along with
5. Good hygiene
6. Shyness (i think its cute)
7. Intelligence
8. Athletic
9. Pretty face
10. Honesty

TURN OFFS:

1. Does drugs or cigarettes or abuses alcohol (doing drugs is absolutely disgusting to me)
2. Slutty-ness
3. Hardcore pacifism (hardcore pacifists = ugh.)
4. Not liking the military and or the USA
5. Piercings (ugh)
6. Controlling
7. Too Fat
8. Too skinny
9. Too mean or bitchy or disrespectful
10. Too many tattoos

And thats my list


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endearment


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Turn Ons
-strong
-smart
-honest
-perverted (at the right moments!)
-the hands! nice strong, rough hands
-musicians, especially singers, guitarists & DRUMMERS :]
-takes care of himself properly
-cares about the future and career wise
-responsible
-agrees with me. i know it sounds controlling but i like to wear the pants in the relationship in the beginning haha

Turn Offs
-players. 'nuff said
-illiterate and basically someone who doesn't care for their education
-know-it-alls
-bad hygiene
-control freaks, extremely jealous guys
-no sense of humor
-cheaters, drinkers & smokers
-disrespectful
-conceited
-no religion. (big personal preference of mine)

I have much, much more though :]



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Jay JWLH


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ON
1) Bi-sexual - Most of them are, and I don't mind if the next one is as well. At least I won't have any arguments if she chooses a third person in a group activity to be a woman or not, if that time comes.
2) Maturity - I don't mind if a girl can act immature a lot of the time, but somewhere along the lines arguments are going to start happening, and I need someone that is prepared to stop and listen to me and understand. I will return the favour. This is pretty critical.
3) Tall - Doesn't have to be all that tall, I might even dislike it if she was taller than I am, because I am tall enough as it is. I just need a girl that I won't have any massive trouble trying to get down to her level, without her having to wear high heals on a step to reach my lips.
4) A bit of a open mind - I can't stand a girl that isn't ready to understand a couple of important things, like potentially an open relationship, or even one that involves something beyond vanilla sex. If I say anal sex and you are judging me for it (I'm not even that into it), or block the idea out of your head, then you have too much of a closed mind to me, and lack curiosity. There is a lot to this that makes things more... and more of a turn on.
5) Intelligent - I don't mind a friend being as stupid as they want to be, but if I say a lot of sophisticated words and you can't even begin to understand one of them, it will get frustrating fast.
6) Background - There is a lot of things I am willing to accept that you have gone through, and I should be willing to support you through it, but I am not going to commit to a woman who enjoys the use of drugs and drinks a little too often. I am not going to start anything with drugs, and while I might start drinking in my own time, I am not fine helping out a woman who is stumbling all the time. I wouldn't mind a woman who needs some support, emotional support.
7) Honesty - I actually kinda wish I was legally allowed to shoot anyone that creates a web of lies. Maybe you can lie about some things, but there is a lot of mistakes that you can make that I might be able to forgive if you are just honest to me about it. Mistakes happen, and we aren't perfect, so just be up front about the things you did. I couldn't ask for more.
8) Girl - Oh yeah... you have to be a girl. Connecting on an emotional and love level with a guy just isn't possible for me, and I don't want to test it out.

OFF
1) Gold digger - I appreciate a girl who can not thank me enough for what I gave them as a gift. Sometimes I might give you a very thoughtful and useful gift, and spend a little too much on it. But if I haven't spent a cent on you in a month and you think you should have sort of weekly allowance, then I wish you goodbye. I would rather know what you need money  for and pay for it, if I really had to.
2) Massive drama games - I have and probably will continue to create some level of drama in a relationship, but if I have a couple of numbers txting my phone telling me how much of a jerk I am, you are blowing this completely out of proportion and you won't be hearing from me again.
3) Hair maintenance - Woman are meant to be elegant, and have some sort of hair free feature about them. Maybe I can understand how annoying it can be to get well shaved legs all the time, but if you have lost hopes on those legs then I will need to see ID and hope you are not a man. And the down south area, I can understand personal preference, but give trimming a chance at least.
4) Saving yourself - Sorry, but I just don't want the added complication that sex is out of the question. If you are a virgin it is alright if you wait so I can prove myself that I will not be a mistake for you. However sex needs to exist at some capacity.
5) Attitudes - If I keep thinking I will die the next time I die as a passenger, or you will die as a driver in a car, then you have serious reality issues. Cars can go fast if you want, but please don't put my life in danger unnecessarily, or make me cry if you lose yours. No drugs either, and drinking like stated above.
6) Age - Until I get older, any girls younger than 3-4 years of me will have a noticeable different level of maturity and are in that stage of their life. You still live with your parents, and will continue to do so for a while to come. I will get careful once you reveal an age too young for me. On the older side, I suppose I don't mind so much as long as I can pass you off as a teenager... just maybe.
7) Shy - You can get time to know me, but if you can't trust me with how you feel about something and keep clammed up all the time, then I don't know how I am going to establish a real emotional relationship with you. I am going to ask you what is wrong sometimes, and I really think you should open up.

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lovelovelove


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Turn Off
1. Cockiness: Thinks he can get any girl he wants, always attracts too much attention to himself, etc. Not cool.

2. Hairiness: Eww. Just eww. My dad and brother are the absolute worst- I wouldn't want my guy like that.

3. The "badass" type: It's the most annoying thing ever. Bragging about how drunk you were and when you thought you could fly down the stairs, and using words like "sketchy" and "ballin'".

4. Over-use of slang/over swearing. It's unnecessary, and it just makes you look stupid and like you're trying to fit the media's idea of "cool".

5. Sexual experience: I'm probably the first to use post this on my list of turn offs. I think you should wait for the right girl to lose your virginity to, and at this age it's impossible to know if she's the "right" girl. Yes, I'm a virgin, and no, I'm not religious.

6. Big age gap. Like, more than 2 years. If he's a lot older, it would feel like I'm being "played". If he's a lot younger, he's probably immature and plus it would just seem weird..

7. "Playas". Assholes.

8. Guys who are mean/rude- be it to the stinky guy in the corner or the old woman with the cane.

9. Burping/farting. No, just no.

10. Very skinny/lanky. I just don't find it attractive.. at all.. especially when they walk hunched over..

Turn Ons

1. A great sense of humour. If he's funny, and it's the right kind of humour, I'm all for it.

2. Has things to talk about/is good at conversation. There is absolutely NOTHING worse than having gaping silences and awkward conversations about weather, "how are you", etc..

3. Has beautiful eyes. Especially if they have that look of being slanted downwards and outwards.. adorable.

4. Can be cheesy. I actually find it very sweet when guys make cheesy comments, or listen to girly love songs, etc.

5. Has a sense of style. Wearing the same sweatshirt 6 days a week is a definite no-no.

6. Good musical tastes. If he likes the same stuff as me, and nothing rappish or "gangsta".

7. Has beliefs and morals. It shows a strong character. Also if he is into a cause such as global warming, animal testing, etc.

8. Uses good English. Big words are cute, and he must be at least somewhat smart. I like a guy who is a good writer.

9. Is sensitive. Opening up about his good or bad feelings is great. It's also the cutest thing ever.

10. Knows how to have fun. And I don't mean staying up all night drunk on booze- I mean like making jokes in a serious situation(I mean like studying for biology exams, NOT a funeral. Lol.)

So, yeah. I've probably forgot some. But that's the main idea..


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emjei


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are you really looking all those thing in girl, you are pathetic, if every boy has a list like this i will never find a boyfriend

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pinki3lov3swolf


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TURN ONS
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1. SMILE- STRAIGHT AND CLEAN TEETH!
2. EYES- THE WINDOW TO THE SOUL....
3. FRIENDLY- I WOULDNT LIKE CHOOSING BETWEEN MY FRIENDS AND MY MAN, SO I PREFER IF THEY ARE FRIENDS.
4. HYGIENE- BE CLEAN AND SMELL GOOD
5. TATTOOS- SOME CREATIVITY
6. FUNNY- SENSE OF HUMOR IS A MUST

TURN OFFS
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1. STALKER KIND OF GUY - IF HE ALWAYS CALLS YOU AND DOESNT LET YOU BREATH ITS BAD....
2. THE PERVERT- IF HE IS ALWAYS THINKIN ABOUT SE AND MAKES IT OBVIOUS..... NO....
3. LAZY- IF HE DOESNT WORK OR ANYTHINIG, HOW THE FREAK IS HE GONNA PAY FOR THE MOVIES
4. THE PLAYER- I WANNA BE HIS ONLY GIRL
5. THE LIAR- HONESTY IS A BIG PART IN A RELATIONSHIP

THATS BASICALLY IT!
TRYING TO MAKE IT AS REALISTIC AS POSSILE....

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marissa16

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Wow that is a really specific list you have there.
But you just need to learn to take a girl for who she is.
Because Girls meet some of those requirements but no one
girl alone will ever meet all those. If they do, it will take your
whole life to find someone like that. I mean every girl has
there own looks and there own personality. Just take what you got

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Young Deezy

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Big butts

Stuck up bitches

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Nils Brady


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There's some things I agree about with the list and some I don't. But you have to look hard for the girls that meet for reqirments even though there are alot out there.

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anna07


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dude u have no idea we are female u are not going to find a girl to all those standards.. i wish u all the luck in the world though

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