2. Appearance
Curly or chin length hair is a big turn on for me. I'm more attracted to brunettes, or the dark eyes-light hair-vice-versa combination. I prefer guys who are tall, but that won't be a problem, since I'm around 5' 1''. I'm going to be honest and say that I'm a pretty shallow person. I can't be in a relationship if I'm not physically attracted to the person. Haha, that made me sound like such a bitch.

3. Habits
I'm not looking for a neat-freak, but please make an effort to be clean and presentable. You know, change your clothes everyday, wash your hair, cut your fingernails. I'm not phased by things considered conversational taboo, so don't be surprised if I asked you how many times you masterbated or related sexual questions.

4. Intelligence
I love arguing and debating. Seriously, please have views of your own. Don't say "uhhhh, idk!" or things like that. Prove me wrong, and I'll be 10 times more attracted to you than I already am.  

5. Apparel
I'm not really bothered by this, but please, I can't deal with guys who wear jeans three sizes too big for them around their knees, with shirts just as large. I prefer a more fitted look on guys - t-shirts, jeans, et cetera.

6. Entertainment
I love action movies, horror films, reading real literature, and video games. I don't think I'll find a problem with guys who like these. I like to discuss such movies/books/etc. and beat you at video/computer games. I love a guy who's as competitive as I am, and wouldn't think twice about tackling me in touch football or whatever sport we're playing.  

7. Persistence
This is a big one. If you want something, I want to see that you're passionate about it. But, if you're so persistent that you're on the verge of annoying-please-fuck-off, don't bother.

8. Unconventional
I'm really eccentric, and I hate clichés. I'd prefer dates that are a bit weird and not date-esque. Examples would be laser-tagging,  playing annoy-everyone-in-the-bookstore, playing secret agent in the bookstore, and uh, paint-balling.  

9. Artistic
Whether it be with music, art, or dance - I'm really attracted to guys who have an artistic side. It's definitely a nice breath of fresh air if a guy doesn't thing it's too girly to draw or paint or play the piano or dance ballroom.

10. Food
I love food. If you can cook - I'm yours.

Turn Off:
1. Clingy
I hate guys who are clingy. I like my space, please. I am not cheating on you, so please, don't call me every five minutes to ask me what I'm doing.

2. Overly Romantic
I'm not awesome at showing feelings of love or whatever feelings that usually occurs in a relationship, and I don't expect you to show it all the time. I hate pet names. I'd hate if you sent me cute little text messages or big teddy bears ALL THE TIME. Once in a while I like walks in the park at night. or a candle-light dinner.  

3. Uncultured
I think this speaks for itself. If you use 'yo', 'ma', 'wuzup', or any other slang that ruins the english language, please don't speak to me. I mean, the usual 'what's up?', or 'LOL'-esque online, and unless you're using 1337 /chatspeak to be funny don't bother talking to me. I also can't deal with stupid guys. Please know your eight continents.

4. Overly Built / Obese
I don't want a body-builder, and I certainly do not want the next Fat Albert, thank you.

5. Narcissistic
I'd expect you not to compare me to other girls. It's completely embarrassing and not what I'm looking for. Compared to other girls, I spend a minimal amount of time on my appearance, but that doesn't mean I don't look nice. But, if you spend a longer time in the bathroom than I do, good-bye.

6. PlayaPimpPlaya
No. I don't want to hear how many girls you've boned before. I don't want to hear who's the most fuckable. I don't care.

7. Smokers
Sorry, the smell is absolutely horrid, but I'm lenient on this one.

8. Lack of Respect
I can take teasing and poking at, but do not humiliate me just because you think it's funny. And, if you've ever risen your hand to strike me, I'll have you castrated.

9. Indifference
You can be indifferent to a point with certain things, but then you just become a robot/jackass. I don't want to tell you about my dilemmas or current state of mind and have you go 'ok so?'.  

10. Lack of Trust
I want you to be able to tell me how your day went, or what's wrong with you at the moment. I understand that you might not want to talk about it at the moment, but do not hide things from me. It makes me feel inferior.

Post edited at 5:53 pm on Feb. 7, 2008 by gangstarollerbunny

2)Long hair. I'll never date a guy with a buzz cut, EVER. His hair needs to be grown out, kind of a skater look, to the chin is as short as I'll go.

3)Piercings. It's so fucking sexy when a guy has his ear/tongue/eyebrow/nipples pierced.

4)Busy. I want to date a guy who has a life. Not a guy that sits around all day, I want a guy who is busy, dedicated, etc. And I know this sounds weird, but I always fall for the guys that seem *too busy* for me. The ones who care about spending time with me, but also let me know they have other things to do.

5)Build and Height. You have to be taller than me. I don't like short guys. I actually like REALLY tall guys. Like 5'11 and up. They also have to be bigger than me, it's okay if their skinny, but they need a larger frame than me.

6)Happy trails, I think they're incredibly hot.

7)Good grades, I like a guy with motivation and dedication. I don't want to date a drop out, I want to date a guy who's life is going somewhere.

8)Sweet. I like sweet guys, it's okay if you act all macho around your friends, but when you're with me, it's okay to let your gaurd down. I like to see a romantic side.

9)Guys who protect you. I want to feel safe with my guy, it's good to know that he can fight, and would be willing to in a heartbeat to protect me.

10)Distant guys. I love mysterious/or distant guys. Guys that aren't so clingy and forward. Guys that are abrupt, or aloof, and keep you guessing. Sometimes it's fun to beat around the bush and play games.

Turn Offs:
1)Short Hair. I DON'T like short hair, at all. Dark hair isn't really a turn off, but if it's short, it's a no.

2)Jerks and Assholes. That doesn't work for me, if you aren't going to respect me, you aren't going to date me.

3)Guys that only have one goal, to get in my pants. Don't get me wrong, I KNOW guys want action, all of them. And I will definately give my boyfriends what they need, but if your main concern is to fuck me, then no, don't waste your time.

4)Guys that call me "hot". For some reason I don't like that compliment, I'd rather you say: cute/pretty/beautiful/sexy/gorgeous. The typical "hot" just isn't enough for me.

5)Small guys. Big turn off. I like a guy who is bigger than me, can protect me, if you're tiny..well that's not going to work.

6) Goody two-shoes. I want a guy who knows how to party. I want a guy that will smoke a water bong with me, or get drunk off their asses occasionally.

7)Potheads/Drunks. I don't mind occassional(sp) drinking, or smoking pot, I do it as well. But if it's ALL you think about, and all you do, then you obviously dont' need me.

8)Clingy guys. The ones that say "omg I love you" and flood you with compliments 24/7. The ones that are very insecure, constantly asking where you are, and constantly texting/calling you. If you act like you don't need me, I'll probably go crazy over you to be honest.

9)Doesn't like rock. Rock is VERY important to me. It's a part of who I am. If you don't share some of the same taste, or are a complete idiot in the field of rock, then I won't date you.

10)Dullness. Looks aren't everything, keep me interested, keep me guessing, drive me crazy, and i'll definately stick around. Duh.

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2.abilty to make me laugh. you cant do that then its just not gonna happen. sorry!

3.taller than me. i'm 5 8 so any guy that is taller than me is a big turn on

4. small muscules. i like the big but its just too much of showing off for me

5.tattoos. thats one of my weaknesses.

6.smart. i am smart myself so i want someone who can have a smart convo with.

7.busy. he has his own life so hes not constantly bugging me because i cant hang out.

8. same music taste. i wanna be able to have a convo about the music like wat is new and stuff like that.

9.sweet. i love sweet guys to death!!

10.gives good hugs. u cant give bad hugs or i wont wanna hug you.

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Turn On:

8. Unconventional
I'm really eccentric, and I hate clichés. I'd prefer dates that are a bit weird and not date-esque. Examples would be laser-tagging, playing annoy-everyone-in-the-bookstore, playing secret agent in the bookstore, and uh, paint-balling.

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O M G ME 2 <3

1) Girls that like to play secret agent in a bookstore

2) Girls who go their own way, don't follow the crowd, think for themselves, don't mind being separated from the group

3) Attractive, don't wear THAT much makeup on regular days. Thin(ish) body and a nice face.

4) Are foreign...like Russian or European...idk why. I don't mind American girls (sometimes) but foreign is + points in my book. Not totally necessary.

5) Humble, especially pertaining to pretty girls.

6) Smart. I get a hard-on when an attractive girl does better than me on a test.

7) Friendly. Self-explanatory

8) Not bitchy, insecure, or a control freak

9) Doesn't go after the stereotypical jock. Omg hate it when girls suck up to the guy in class who tries to make his voice sound really deep and act like they're better than everyone.

10) Likes to travel. Anwhere and everywhere.

11) Brunettes, unless you're a really nice blonde girl with curly hair

12) Big ones- tries to get my attention or tries to make me feel better when I'm sad. Purrrrrrrrrrr

13) Confidence, takes initiative (wow I sound like a girl)

Still lookin :P

Post edited at 9:17 pm on Feb. 14, 2008 by Hero

Honesty- lie to me and you will loose me,be honest wit me and i'll just be pissed at you for a couple of days and talk to you about it
Shyness...Idk why
kinkyness.... i just love it
sensitive guys-its ok to show emotional feelings...
funny-I break down easy at times and if you can make help me cheer up it helps alot.... so make me laugh and you are golden.
random-I just find it if you burst any random thing it makes conversations more fun and interesting
protective....sumone who don't want sumone to get hurt is always a sweet caring thing =]

Turns off.
a guy who breaks up wit a girl becuz they got mad at them...well it really depends on why they got mad at you like sumthing....but if its sumthing little then that would be stupid.

a guy who believes people over you...ok my ex believed my cousin over me and broke up wit me... and i was telling the god's honest truth.

preppy guys... I'm bi and and if i wanted to date a preppy guy i would just go date a girl.

a guy who put people down.....if you don't like sumthing i do such as if you don't like the shirt i'm wearing don't insult me about it.

guys who stay pissed off all the time.... well who would want sumone like that??

guys that have a stronger anger issue.... learn how to calm down.

1.) Quirkiness.
2.) Must be cute (notice I didn't say hot)
3.) Dark blonde, (light brunette coming second)
4.) Has a will of her own
5.) Intelligence
6.) No more than 6 inches shorter than me.
8.) Good sense of humor
9.) Humility
10.) Beautiful enough not to have to wear make-up.

Turn offs

1.) Ignorance
2.) Making every sentence sound like a question.
3.) Platinum blondes.
4.) High pitched/boisterous voice
5.) Having reputation for being easy.
6.) Excessive drug use/drinking.
7.) Overweight (I don't mind a little fat, just not so much that it bulges from your shirt.)
8.) Huge boobs
9.) Selfishness
10.) Too much make up

heres my list though

Turn Ons:

1. Brown hair/Blue eyes: I pretty much think that this is gorgeous on a guy <3

2. Humor: you have to have a sense of humor or your going to bore me.. and i don't like being bored && i love to laugh. so make me laugh. and I'll love you <3

3. Nice build: Now I'm not talking huge muscles because that is deff a turn off. but being big enough i feel protected is nice.

4. Taller than me: i don't like guys shorter than me.. simple as that

5. Good Hygiene. please shower.. thats all i ask. shower at least once a day.. it makes the world happier!

6. knows how to have fun: Don't be boring. like to party sometimes, can do things that are fun and entertaining... take me to an amusement park? have fun haha

7. Intelligence: Please don't be someone who is so stupid that you can't carry on a good conversation with me.. I hate that.. you have a brain use it.

8. Honesty: If your not honest with me. don't even try it. i can't stand liars.

9. Randomness: I've very random and bounce from topic to topic so if your random its deff a plus <3

10. Cooking: if you can cook. I'll love you forever <3 lol

Turn Offs

1. Playa: need i say more? been cheated on before. rather it not happen again...

2. Smoking: I'm okay with it sometimes.. just don't like it too much

3. cockiness: if you seriously think your all that. get over yourself..

4. Acts like you don't care about me in front of your friends: if you act like a complete asshole to me in front of your friends.. your screwed because that pisses me off haha

5. Excessive Drug use/drinking: now i do it every now and then.. but don't go out and get high and drunk every night. because if you do. then you don't need me

6. Jerks: dont be mean and you'll be okay..

7. Dullness: if your lame and have nothing to say. dont bother lol

8. Small guys: if i'm bigger than you. we have a problem

9. Guys who just want one thing: and thats to get in my pants. i'll pretty much hate you ha.

10. Disrespectful: to me and my parents... get along with my parents please? is that so much to ask for? lol

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