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Do you plan to spank your future children? |
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Replies: 42 Last Post July 16 4:37pm by abbeyqtpi
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| Yes - but only for extreme or dangerous things |
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8% |
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| Yes- but rarely and I will use other methods as well |
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28% |
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| No I will use other methods that work better |
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46% |
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| I dont want kids |
10 |
16% |
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mattchew
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Quote: from Kitty23 at 6:38 am on July 15, 2008
Quote: from mattchew at 8:39 pm on July 14, 2008
Quote: from Keyea at 8:05 pm on July 14, 2008
Quote: from mattchew at 7:54 pm on July 14, 2008
If they warrant it... Yall being like "its not right" are the reason kids suck so much and act out, i was spanked, and guess what i didn't get in trouble. My parents got paddled, perhaps at school too maybe? Their generation wasn't a bunch of arrogant fucks. Damn, I'll whip my children with thorn bush stems. 
Actually 99% of people in prison or jail were spanked as children. 25% of spanked children turn out abusive while only 5% of non spanked children do. It has also been proven through more studies that kids who are spanked often have more behavioral issues, and are more violent . 
not buyin it, thanks. 
Fine be ignorant. These are studies that have been proven. We'll see your child in jail in the future. 
I was spanked as a child, I'm very well behaved, I never acted out, I didn't really cry and whine in public like babies seem to do, I get excellent grades. The kids that I know who act out weren't spanked. Those numbers are a bit extreme I'd say. and considering all my aunts and uncles were spanked, and spanked their kids, 3-8 of my cousins have been abused. And my kids will be a lot better behaved then yours.
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BlueCloud
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I wouldn't be good at judging whether or not it was appropriate - I wouldn't want to, but I can't think of any better ways of discliplining children. Except shouting at them, but whenever I was yelled at as a child I thought it was just as bad as being hit. Part of the reason I don't want kids.
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( Kitty23 )
Personal Assistant
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Quote: from mattchew at 9:03 am on July 15, 2008
Quote: from Kitty23 at 6:38 am on July 15, 2008
Quote: from mattchew at 8:39 pm on July 14, 2008
Quote: from Keyea at 8:05 pm on July 14, 2008
Quote: from mattchew at 7:54 pm on July 14, 2008
If they warrant it... Yall being like "its not right" are the reason kids suck so much and act out, i was spanked, and guess what i didn't get in trouble. My parents got paddled, perhaps at school too maybe? Their generation wasn't a bunch of arrogant fucks. Damn, I'll whip my children with thorn bush stems. 
Actually 99% of people in prison or jail were spanked as children. 25% of spanked children turn out abusive while only 5% of non spanked children do. It has also been proven through more studies that kids who are spanked often have more behavioral issues, and are more violent . 
not buyin it, thanks. 
Fine be ignorant. These are studies that have been proven. We'll see your child in jail in the future. 
I was spanked as a child, I'm very well behaved, I never acted out, I didn't really cry and whine in public like babies seem to do, I get excellent grades. The kids that I know who act out weren't spanked. Those numbers are a bit extreme I'd say. and considering all my aunts and uncles were spanked, and spanked their kids, 3-8 of my cousins have been abused. And my kids will be a lot better behaved then yours. 
I can say the opposite. Everyone I have ever known to have been spanked has turned out about 10x worse than me and my siblings did and we have never been spanked. I am a 4.0 straight A student who does Volunteer work every week, I am respectful to my parents and everyone else around me, my siblings have all been to college and have great jobs, they and I have never done drugs or went out partying. Spanking isnt needed , it is just for the lazy frustrated parent who doesnt want to put the effort into actually raising a child and would rather smack them, or hit them into submission.
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mattchew
Executive
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Quote: from Kitty23 at 10:59 am on July 15, 2008
I can say the opposite. Everyone I have ever known to have been spanked has turned out about 10x worse than me and my siblings did and we have never been spanked. I am a 4.0 straight A student who does Volunteer work every week, I am respectful to my parents and everyone else around me, my siblings have all been to college and have great jobs, they and I have never done drugs or went out partying. Spanking isnt needed , it is just for the lazy frustrated parent who doesnt want to put the effort into actually raising a child and would rather smack them, or hit them into submission. 
Okay(according to firefox that should be tokay), straight A's 4.4 GPA, working on Eagle scout project, volunteer at 4-h camp, rescue mission etc, been asked if I was in college because I was mature (before the beard). Know a guy and his sister, they were spanked and his sister is at harvard, and he'll end up there or Stanford or any school he wants really, I could go on about children who have been spanked. Then the worst behaved kids who talk back to the teachers and such, no spanking. I imagine if we put back in corporal punishment that there would be fewer discipline issues. Plenty of successful people have been spanked. My guess is it probably doesn't actually make a difference whether a kid is spanked or not.
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( Kitty23 )
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Quote: from mattchew at 11:11 am on July 15, 2008
Quote: from Kitty23 at 10:59 am on July 15, 2008
I can say the opposite. Everyone I have ever known to have been spanked has turned out about 10x worse than me and my siblings did and we have never been spanked. I am a 4.0 straight A student who does Volunteer work every week, I am respectful to my parents and everyone else around me, my siblings have all been to college and have great jobs, they and I have never done drugs or went out partying. Spanking isnt needed , it is just for the lazy frustrated parent who doesnt want to put the effort into actually raising a child and would rather smack them, or hit them into submission. 
Okay(according to firefox that should be tokay), straight A's 4.4 GPA, working on Eagle scout project, volunteer at 4-h camp, rescue mission etc, been asked if I was in college because I was mature (before the beard). Know a guy and his sister, they were spanked and his sister is at harvard, and he'll end up there or Stanford or any school he wants really, I could go on about children who have been spanked. Then the worst behaved kids who talk back to the teachers and such, no spanking. I imagine if we put back in corporal punishment that there would be fewer discipline issues. Plenty of successful people have been spanked. My guess is it probably doesn't actually make a difference whether a kid is spanked or not. 
Therefore it is not needed and other methods are effective.
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smartlake
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Yeah, but only up until they are...4-5ish. And only when I am not angry. If they understand that I 'hit' them only for doing wrong, as opposed to me being mad, I don't think that there'd be any debilitating long-term psycological effects.
------- Hope Hype
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MarkHi88
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Yes. I was spanked, my parents and siblings were spanked, and nobody is any the worse for it. So yes, my children will be spanked.
------- www.antiwar.com
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abbeyqtpi
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never. a spank leads to so much more. l:
------- sincerely yours, never again.
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