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Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:45 am on Aug. 27, 2008

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almost 18
     

     ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


   

    Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know.  Be happy and support her here.


   

   i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


 

  She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone.  Some things you just have to let happen.


 

 i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


Then dont.
But you dont have to moan about it do you.
GTFO.


why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

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Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know. Be happy and support her here.


  i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


 

  She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone. Some things you just have to let happen.


  i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


 

 Then dont.  
 But you dont have to moan about it do you.  
 GTFO.


why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism


Its not a stupid descison to her.
Leave it to her.
Its not up to you.

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Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:47 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:45 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:43 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:42 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:39 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:37 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
       

       ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


     

      Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know.  Be happy and support her here.


     

     i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


   

    She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone.  Some things you just have to let happen.


   

   i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


 

  Then dont.  
  But you dont have to moan about it do you.  
  GTFO.


 

 why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism


Its not a stupid descison to her.
Leave it to her.  
Its not up to you.


it's not a matter of opinion whether or not setting poor examples for your child is stupid. if you don't think that's stupid then YOU must be stupid.

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:45 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:43 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:39 am on Aug. 27, 2008

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know. Be happy and support her here.


  i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


 

  She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone. Some things you just have to let happen.


  i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


 

 Then dont.  
 But you dont have to moan about it do you.  
 GTFO.


why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism



Exactly. You've voiced your thoughts. You've criticised. But at the end of the day, that's your opinion.
So unless you're planning on crawling though your computer screen, and navigating your way through to her computer screen and force feeding her the pill, she's still gonna be trying for a baby, cos let's face it, who ever listens to someone from the internet?

So drop it. And leave.

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:49 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:47 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:45 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:43 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:42 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:39 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:37 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know. Be happy and support her here.


  i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


 

  She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone. Some things you just have to let happen.


  i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


 

  Then dont.  
  But you dont have to moan about it do you.  
  GTFO.


  why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism


 

 Its not a stupid descison to her.  
 Leave it to her.
 Its not up to you.


it's not a matter of opinion whether or not setting poor examples for your child is stupid. if you don't think that's stupid then YOU must be stupid.



Okay.. :|

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Make sure you know what you're doing.

Good luck.


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Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:49 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:47 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:45 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:43 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:42 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:39 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:37 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know. Be happy and support her here.


  i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


 

  She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone. Some things you just have to let happen.


  i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


 

  Then dont.  
  But you dont have to moan about it do you.  
  GTFO.


  why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism


 

 Its not a stupid descison to her.  
 Leave it to her.
 Its not up to you.


it's not a matter of opinion whether or not setting poor examples for your child is stupid. if you don't think that's stupid then YOU must be stupid.


If he grows up to be rich, famous, and a great role model for others, I am for sure laughing at you.

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:18 am on Aug. 27, 2008

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Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

 ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


are you fucking blind!?!?!?
100,000 put away
im sure she can manage, its her decision...

good luck! <3


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Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:52 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:49 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:47 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:45 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:43 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:42 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:39 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from sosupkthnx at 4:37 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
         

         ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


       

        Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know.  Be happy and support her here.


       

       i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.


     

      She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone.  Some things you just have to let happen.


     

     i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"


   

    Then dont.    
    But you dont have to moan about it do you.    
    GTFO.


   

   why shouldn't i voice my thoughts? if you're going to post about making a stupid decision, expect criticism


 

  Its not a stupid descison to her.  
  Leave it to her.    
  Its not up to you.


 

 it's not a matter of opinion whether or not setting poor examples for your child is stupid. if you don't think that's stupid then YOU must be stupid.


If he grows up to be rich, famous, and a great role model for others, I am for sure laughing at you.


go ahead. intentionally setting bad examples for your child is wrong either way.

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Quote: from wathupdawg at 4:53 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:18 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
   

   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


 

 no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


are you fucking blind!?!?!?
100,000 put away
im sure she can manage, its her decision...

 good luck! <3


having enough money doesn't equal being able to raise a child

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my aunty had her first child at 16, she had her 2nd at 17, 3rd at 19, 4th at 25 an her 5th one last night.. she hasnt got alot of money but shes managed to give her kids a good life an they have what they want! so go for it if its what you want x

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Quote: from wathupdawg at 4:55 am on Aug. 27, 2008

my aunty had her first child at 16, she had her 2nd at 17, 3rd at 19, 4th at 25 an her 5th one last night.. she hasnt got alot of money but shes managed to give her kids a good life an they have what they want! so go for it if its what you want x

why don't you join jamie spears and people magazine in the glamorizing of teen pregnancies?

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:54 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from wathupdawg at 4:53 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:18 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


  no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 

 are you fucking blind!?!?!?  
 100,000 put away  
 im sure she can manage, its her decision...  

  good luck! <3


having enough money doesn't equal being able to raise a child


but it does help! an no1 knows what to do on their first child, thats why you become a mother to learn!


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Quote: from wathupdawg at 4:59 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:54 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from wathupdawg at 4:53 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:18 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
     

     ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


   

    ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


   

   no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 

  are you fucking blind!?!?!?  
  100,000 put away  
  im sure she can manage, its her decision...  

   good luck! <3


 

 having enough money doesn't equal being able to raise a child


 but it does help! an no1 knows what to do on their first child, thats why you become a mother to learn!


first of all, that's not true... if you have a child so that you can experiment with parenting methods then you're incredibly irresponsible. you should have everything thought and planned out, exactly how you're going to raise your child and what kind of examples you'll be setting. simply ensuring that you have enough money is, by far, not nearly enough planning.

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well i guess if you wanna have a baby at the same age as i am, then good luck?

i personally dont want one now, but if there's nothing else in life you want to do, then ok :)

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