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Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:19 am on Aug. 27, 2008

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almost 18
   

   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


 

 no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


whatever madre. shes 18 and shell be responsible for it.


i didn't realize that being eighteen years of age automatically means that you have the ability to support a child. oh, wait... that's because it DOESN'T. this isn't a matter that you can blow off with a 'whatever.' this is serious. this is a LIFE.

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

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Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

 ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!



If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.
She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.
Its her choice.
Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.

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Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
   

   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


 

 no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 
If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.  
She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.
Its her choice.  
Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.


and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


  no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 

 
 If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.
 She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.  
 Its her choice.
 Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.


and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'


Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?
Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?
I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so.

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Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
     

     ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


   

    ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


   

   no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 

     
  If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.    
  She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.  
  Its her choice.    
  Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.


 

 and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'


Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?  
Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?
I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so.


she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed"

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:27 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


  no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 

 
  If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.
  She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.  
  Its her choice.
  Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.


  and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'


 

 Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?
 Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?  
 I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so.


she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed"


Ok. You've made your point.
But in the end its her choice, you can't change it.

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stop telling her wot she can and cannot do

go with the flow

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Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008

stop telling her wot she can and cannot do  

go with the flow


go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:27 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18

  ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


 

  ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


  no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


 

 
  If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.
  She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.  
  Its her choice.
  Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.


  and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'


 

 Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?
 Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?  
 I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so.


she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed"


i actually do have a job... i work part time as a nail tech at my ants. I'm actually currently in rolled in cosmetology school...

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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008

stop telling her wot she can and cannot do

 go with the flow


go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way


JUST SHUT UP!

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Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:27 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008

almost 18
       

       ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?


     

      ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.


     

     no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!


   

         
    If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.      
    She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.    
    Its her choice.      
    Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.


   

   and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'


 

  Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?    
  Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?  
  I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so.


 

 she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed"


i actually do have a job... i work part time as a nail tech at my ants. I'm actually currently in rolled in cosmetology school...


that's wonderful, you've got a dead-end job and you're enrolled in something that will take time away from your newborn baby

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Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008

stop telling her wot she can and cannot do    

  go with the flow


 

 go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way


JUST SHUT UP!


why should i sit and listen to someone make a mistake that will ruin an innocent life without replying?

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Madre Mia!
She's just said that her boyfriend has 100 thousand put away to raise the baby.
She's almost 18. You're very quick to jump to the conclusion that she's an immature 18 year old. You don't even know her, so don't judge her situation. It sounds like she's thought about this a lot. Not every family should work the same way, otherwise the world would be very boring.

So stop being so negative and start sending some positive vibes to the mother-to-be.

Edit: That was aimed at shadowofchar.
To the OP, good luck. I hope for all the best in your future with your family.
xxx

Post edited at 4:36 am on Aug. 27, 2008 by blueelectricguitar

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Quote: from blueelectricguitar at 4:34 am on Aug. 27, 2008

Madre Mia!
She's just said that her boyfriend has 100 thousand put away to raise the baby.
She's almost 18. You're very quick to jump to the conclusion that she's an immature 18 year old. You don't even know her, so don't judge her situation. It sounds like she's thought about this a lot. Not every family should work the same way, otherwise the world would be very boring.

So stop being so negative and start sending some positive vibes to the mother-to-be.
xxx


I'm not being "negative," I'm being REALISTIC.

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