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gf with potential eating disorder? |
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 Replies: 12 — Last Post July 18 10:06am by gokusk8boy
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Well, my girlfriend is about 5'6" and weighs about 112lbs. She still thinks that she is fat, and wants to lose weight. Im really getting worried about her. She has always been significantly lighter than most. However, something she told me last night for the first time worries me. She said that whenever she lays down on her back, side, or stomach, her ribs and back hurt from the ground or bed. I think its because she doesnt have any fat to come between her bones and skin, and they are exposed. Im not sure of this, so if anyone has an explanation for this, Id like to know that as well. My main question is: Does she have an eating disorder in the first place? If she does, is there anything I can do to help her? If anyone can help me with this, thank you.
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Troll1000
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it sounds like she might have one, go with her to her doctor and talk about her eating habits ect
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lmc11591
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hm. that's a tough one. a lot of girls are just skinny. and a lot of girls think they're fat and say they want to lose weight but they never actually do it. just ask her.
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xBeautifulTragedyx
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Sounds like has an ED.
I'm not sure what you can do to help though. =[
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( Anonymous )
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I would go to the doctor with her, but she is denying that she has a major problem. I need something to convince her that she has a problem first. Once I can do that, she may go to the doctor. But what can I do to get her to admit it?
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Bubble girl
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Call a help line. It sounds like it might just be a distorted body image, but its better to try and get her some help if it is something. Talk to her about it. Ask her if she is eating, make sure she is eating. If you need to talk, message me.
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jasonzlpa
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Sometimes I worry about my gf, too. She promised me she hasn't/doesn't/won't, but sometimes I just don't know. Yesterday she felt like throwing up 'cause she ate a meal that had prolly around 420 calories, and the only other thing she ate that day was a piece of bread. These things hurt, I know, but the only thing you can do is trust them, and maybe try to convince them not to.
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Favole
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well it possible that she just has a back problem
it's hard to determine whether she has an anorexia disorder not if she doesn't eat to loose weight then its possible she does
if she is anorexic it's hard to help out the best you can do is let her know she is beautiful and she looks great
get help for her
it's never good to just play it safe and leave things as they are
have you tried and talk to her about it
it might help out a bit
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I would go to the doctor with her, but she is denying that she has a major problem. I need something to convince her that she has a problem first. Once I can do that, she may go to the doctor. But what can I do to get her to admit it? 
