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Going to the beach with my ex-boyfriend just to be friends w/benefits
Replies: 22Last Post Aug. 16 6:02pm by Moundlicker
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My ex-boyfriend that I have dated off and on for 3 and 1/2 years broke up with me again around 3 weeks ago and last night he asked me if I wanted to be friends with benefits and go to the beach with him on sunday. I have never wanted to do and i have always thought friends with benefits where stupid and wrong but i really love him with all of my heart and dont want to lose him. So im thinking about doing it b/c he said it could have a lot of benefits like him one day wanting me back which would be so great but i cant stand to think about him with other girls besides me though so i know im going to end up hurting just like i am now. What should i do lie to my mom and go to the beach for 4 days with him or just forget him?

10:02 am on July 18, 2008
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First of all, do you mean friends with benefits and the benefit is sex?



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Praise the Lard


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he's just using you for sex because he probably can't get a new girlfriend yet
don't bother

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Forget him.  All he wants is your body, he doesn't care about you.

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lmc11591


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forget him! friends with benefits almost never work out or turn into anything more.

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I think it's time to just move on with your life.

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you should... follow your heart. :/ because... i think only you know what's best for you.

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So you're letting him use you for sex because of some vague promise that he might consider dating you again in the distant future?

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don't go, it seems he's using you for sex because he knows you still love him.

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don't do it your heart will get broken

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Quote: from CaliKevin at 10:03 am on July 18, 2008

Forget him. All he wants is your body, he doesn't care about you.

agreed.

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He's clearly just using you.

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Duke

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You have got to be fucking kidding! You are going to go for the bullshit that maybe someday he'll want you back if just let him fuck you now and then when it's convenient for him. Wow girl, you are desperate, sadly so! Yeah sweetie, you go for it. I'm sure that he's giving a lot of thought to working on a relationship with you and you alone.

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You shouldn't go.  It's obvious he doesn't care for you anymore, he's just using you for your body.

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Quote: from SpM at 10:03 am on July 18, 2008

So you're letting him use you for sex because of some vague promise that he might consider dating you again in the distant future?


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