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Do I still have hope (very serious and emergency topic)
Replies: 17Last Post July 19 8:29am by iimjustbadnews
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I have no excuse on what crime I did but basically I'm a 18 yr old guy who had sex with a 15 yr old minor and I got caught. I lied to the cops and everything about it but the 15 yr old told the truth. Her parents aren't pressing charges but the state is going to be against me.

Basically what my dad told me was that my choice was to either fly back to Canada or Mexico to run away or stay in the US and fight the court battle for $4000. Basically I will be fighting a lie and stuff assuming that the state has no evidence that I did have sex with this younger girl.

But yeah I feel like I have no hope. If I go to Canada or Mexico its going to be hard because I will lose all my friends, scholarships and stuff for college. So basically I want to know my rights and stuff. Where can I find the state laws rule and consequences and stuff. If I do go to court and lose the battle, I will be facing 15 years in prison.

The sex was consensual by the way.

But please can somebody help me out. My parents are already talking to lawyers and stuff.


5:24 pm on July 18, 2008
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When your 18, Your supposed to know the GOLDEN RULE!!! DONT HAVE SEX WITH MINORS!! Idiot.

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Sorry but consensual means NOTHING , what you did was illegal, good luck fighting the lie with your hand on the bible.

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wingedmisery

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i wish i could help but i can't. I don't know what to tell you. Good luck

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HideOrSeek


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Wow, pretty tough mate,

Errrrr.
I hate lawyers.

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if you know any spanish i would go 2 spain. that way no 1 can get u. where if ou go 2 mexico and canada they can easily get you.

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meine92


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Nothing you can do.
You WILL have to fight the state and you most likely will be found guilty.
Depending on the state, they will also register you as a sex offender.

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Hoipe for the best and get the best lawyer you can. Even though it will be hard, tell the truth.

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Retain an attorney, honey. That's the very first thing you can do. If you can get the fifteen year old to NOT TESTIFY against you, you're solid, it'll be here say. Fleeing the country will only make you look guilty. Innocent people don't run. Pray she doesn't get pregnant, and I'm really sorry this is happening. You're going to need a DAMN GOOD attorney, but ultimately, do what the attorney or your parents suggest.

GOOD LUCK!

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hard candy


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hmm well the state is pretty stiricted on ths sort of stuff so its going to b tuff to get out of it if she says it want forced that could help u a bit idk thts a tuff one but i think u would probably lose the scholarships any way

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Bud, I'm by no means an expert, but I'd say your best bet is to find a lawyer, and ask him what your legal options are, and what the chances would be of you winning the court battle. If you go to Canada or Mexico, and they want to arrest you, wither country with probably extradite you back to the states, IF you can even get through the border.

So, talk to a lawyer before making decisions. Good luck, I hope it works out, and you can PM me if you'd like to talk, or need someone to calm you down :)

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Quote: from meine92 at 5:27 pm on July 18, 2008

Nothing you can do.
You WILL have to fight the state and you most likely will be found guilty.
Depending on the state, they will also register you as a sex offender.

Correct. When did you have sex with the minor though? There might not be any evidence?.

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lie, and get away with it or see if you can get a guilty plea bargain, dont flee cause then your admitting your guilt

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desireelovesyouu


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You betta get yo self some money.
You are not going to get away with it.

DONT SCREW MINORS.
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Well i'm sorry to say you have little chance of winning this case UNLESS you can get her to not testify. And fleeing is never a good option, because then if you get caught you will then serve even longer with most likely no chance of parole since you would be a flight risk.

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