I went down to visit some relatives in Mexico and to make a long story short, I fell in love with this girl. You could say I already liked her from when I had seen her b4. Well, I was originally on vacation but then after all that I decided to stay down there. Still, my folks it wasn't right for me to be living with them (We were living in my moms house that she had down there) And my dad went for me and told me that if I want to live with her to work, save money, then get married. I have no problem with that and I know a lot of people will say not to marry yet, but I don't mind. Love is blind and I don't care. Anyways, I dunno what to do now. I hate being far from her (1000 miles away) She cries and so do I. She won't eat or anything. She's not spoiled, she has a job and earns her way in life, but we're both suffering. I told her I would save money just for gas to go.

Maybe I'm making a bad decision, but I love her....

I'm 20 and she's 18. I've always lived with my parents but I'm trying to be independent, yet I feel they don't want to let me. To be honest, I Love them with all my heart, but I think they are to attached to me, since I'm the oldest. I've tried to convince them and explain what I feel for her and when I was down there we were happy and for the first time, I was free.....

Also for the first time you felt free, and you should go with what ever your gut instincts are telling you.

Better yet follow your heart, just need to say still; be quiet and listen

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