does anyone have any insight on to why? maybe i didnt try hard enough? or maybe its not so easy? i dont want to just get with sluts all the time so maybe thats why, but still, im having trouble finding a girl to get with :/

You have one hell of a double standard.  You want easy sex from girls, but instead of going after the girls that are okay with it, you'd rather screw someone over who is looking for more or take advantage of them at a party, REALLY nice.

How about instead of going for pussy from girls that want more than sex, you actually either try and make a relationship work whether it gets you sex or not, or get with the girls that will give it to you.

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If idiots could fly, the internet would be a virtual airport.

If you find a girl at a party, chances are she's a bit slutty, and since you aren't looking for sluts, looking for drunk girls at parties probably isn't a good idea either.

Are you interested in being in a relationship, or is that too much commitment right now?

I feel like a lot of reason why people may be lacking in sexual areas in their life is, for one reason, because they are not confident in speaking about their desires. So many people want to take the back seat and expect someone else to make the first, second, and third move, or to just run up to them and tear off their clothes. Life doesn't work like that, nor does sex. Sometimes you have to be willing to move in for the kiss, or to tell someone that you find them sexy. Putting yourself up for rejection is a hard thing for many people, and perhaps that is what is holding you back? Fear of rejection?

You didn't much explain what you did or didn't do at all, so you make it quite impossible for anyone to give an idea on if what you did or didn't do wasn't enough.

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i dont think this is true, and you guys debunked it

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I think that getting sex is easIER than it is in other places in life, but that's not to say that it's easy. I actually find finding sex after college to be easier than in college, but that could also be due to me being a girl.

If you find a girl at a party, chances are she's a bit slutty, and since you aren't looking for sluts, looking for drunk girls at parties probably isn't a good idea either.

Are you interested in being in a relationship, or is that too much commitment right now?

I feel like a lot of reason why people may be lacking in sexual areas in their life is, for one reason, because they are not confident in speaking about their desires. So many people want to take the back seat and expect someone else to make the first, second, and third move, or to just run up to them and tear off their clothes. Life doesn't work like that, nor does sex. Sometimes you have to be willing to move in for the kiss, or to tell someone that you find them sexy. Putting yourself up for rejection is a hard thing for many people, and perhaps that is what is holding you back? Fear of rejection?

You didn't much explain what you did or didn't do at all, so you make it quite impossible for anyone to give an idea on if what you did or didn't do wasn't enough.

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You said it yourself, you're a girl, finding sex is about as hard as finding rednecks in a trailer park.

Still, the problem isn't him getting sex, the problem is he's aiming for the girls that have respect for themselves and are actually quality girls, yet he's wanting just sex from them no strings attached, it just doesn't work that way.  If you want just sex, get a slut.  It's like shopping for a car that has great gas mileage but you're only going for trucks or SUV's.  Sure, you could find it once in a while, but you're searching the wrong market.

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If idiots could fly, the internet would be a virtual airport.

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i think hes talking about just the pre conceived notion that its easy to get some in college.  

i dont think this is true, and you guys debunked it

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You said it yourself, you're a girl, finding sex is about as hard as finding rednecks in a trailer park.

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Still, the problem isn't him getting sex, the problem is he's aiming for the girls that have respect for themselves and are actually quality girls, yet he's wanting just sex from them no strings attached

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