I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Lately I've been feeling really paranoid that he's going to leave me and he's cheating on me however I have no proof. It's an irrational thought. We talk every day at all hours. Today he's not picking up his phone and he never called me back. I'm literally going crazy. I have social anxiety disorder and this is only contributing to my anxiety. I don't know what to do. Someone help?
10:54 am on July 6, 2008
aisling1991
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be patient...there's probably a completely reasonable explanation for this.
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baka
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is he not picking the phone up or cant you get through to the phone?
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like you said, it is irrational thoughts. talk to him about it.
------- my mom hit me with quotes from the bible i catch em, go outside and hope for survival
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i guess you've got two choices.
Either get the hell out, go cold turkey and just don't speak or see or think about him (hardest one) and then eventually you won't have to worry about it anymore and can concentrate on rest of you r life.
Or you need to talk to him about it, or at least talk to him and find out if he still feels the same way.
Whatever you do don't just leave it, do something or it will probably only get worse.
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Irishkisses52
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Definitely talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. He might be feeling the same way too :)
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