Now we obviously wanted to wait before doing anything sexual so we got to know each other, she being a virgin wanted to be sure she felt right, and i have been through a lot of shit with my ex (who is the only person i have done sexual stuff with) so i am now HIGHLY concious of doing anything sexual.

So we decided to wait, and after a while we started to feel alot more comfatable around each other but we still didnt do anything due to one of us not feeling ready or one thing or another. Now its been 6 months and finally our hands wandered and we fooled around.

Thing is i have no idea what she felt about the whole thing, she was quite all the way through and although i think she enjoyed it as much as i did, and even tho she said she did, i still dont know, i know my ex was 'ahem' louder and that some girls are quiter but i have no idea if she actually enjoyed it.

I know im sexually concious since my ex so perhaps im jus clutching at straws but i also felt it sort of awkward, or maybe it was cos i still felt nervous and uncomfatable with the whole thing. or maybe we both waited too long.

any ideas? we havnt done anything since, and shes always been distant in the relationship which shes doing at the moment.

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I'm usually quiet even when i have sex. not because i don't enjoy it, just because i don't want my bf's parents to hear us.

Do not fret about anything.  She was quiet because it was her first time and she wasn't sure how to act.  Also, being it the first time, she was taking in the experience, probably actually thinking about it (or trying hard not to so as not to get herself worked up or something).  

As for staying away at the moment, you two just took a big step in the relationship, she needs to think about it, and take it in.  Give her some time.  Eventually though the nervousness about it will pass and you two will enjoy each other more, and she'll react more to it.

But yeah, don't worry.  Everything is fine.

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