I was going out with this guy for about 3 weeks and i thought it was going really well and stuff, but then on Friday he text me saying that he didnt think he was ready for a relationship atm, that he doesn't think he's over his ex and that he's "in a weird place" and needs to sort himself out. It was just so random and out of the blue, it just really shocked me. But obv I want whats best for him and for him to be happy so I was just like ok, cool. And we said we'd stay friends. Then yesterday I went round his house, and it was just SO weird. He kept on hugging me and kissing me, and I was just like :| cos when I went round there I had no intention of that happening. I don't understand what he wants from me. I dunno if he's just on the rebound or something. He says he really likes me, but he doesnt wanna be with me, yet he carried on like we were still together I dont get it?
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PineappleKiss
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He might not be ready to commit and still might love his ex, but still want the affection, if you get me?
I'd ask him if I were you.
Post edited at 7:35 am on July 6, 2008 by PineappleKiss
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TNAwrestlingfan
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That's weird... maybe he just wants to be physical with you without being tied down.
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aisling1991
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maybe he just needs someone atm to cuddle and stuff...you should talk to him
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Dr Billi
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its possible hes using you. but i dont know the guy so i cant tell. your just going to have to take a step back and really ask yourself, what does he want from me. youll know the answer.
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