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my friend is leaving to go to Iraq...
Replies: 12Last Post July 6 7:11pm by DADDYS LITTLE GIRL
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( decoyyydown )


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in a few days.
Him and i have always been really close.
He's aloud to have one person come to wish him off, and he picked me, even over his family.
I wanna go, and i'm going to. But idk how to say goodbye.
I found out about him leaving about 2 weeks ago, and everytime i've seen him since then, i haven't been able to help but to cry, and he always comforts me & tells me he'll be back, that he promises he will and that he loves me and that as long as i don't forget about him he'll always be there with me.

My problem is, idk how to say goodbye.
I mean, in reality, i don't wanna use the word 'bye' at all.
Goodbye means going away & going away means forgetting, and i just don't want that.
But what do i say, and do?
I love him to death & wanna make sure hes positive of that before he leaves.

HELP?

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ummmm  wish him luck? idk

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Fortis Obscurum


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I hope he doesn't die.  On the pointless war.

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Hug him, and tell him you'll keep in touch and see him soon.

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i hope our new president who ever becomes it, brings back our troops.

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that sux balls, um tell him u love him and tell em to keep n touch

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Give him something that can remind him of you. That way you can feel more reassured. Pray for him everyday. Remind him to eat his daily veggies.

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DADDYS LITTLE GIRL


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If you don't want to say goodbye then don't just go there to wish him well and see him off, tell him that you love him and you'll see him when he gets back and be sure to right.
I've been through this before its hard but everything worked out.

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( decoyyydown )


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I've been through it before too, but never with a close friend.
I'm a military brat & i'm used to my dad and brothers and uncle & cousins & stuff going.
But never a friend, especially someone like him, he's like my everything, my bestfriend, i see him everyday, i care about him more so then my own bf, and now he's leaving.

Thats my problem.

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one of my good friends is in iraq and i send him lots of nudes ;)

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Quote: from decoyyydown at 6:57 pm on July 6, 2008

in a few days.
Him and i have always been really close.
He's aloud to have one person come to wish him off, and he picked me, even over his family.
I wanna go, and i'm going to. But idk how to say goodbye.
I found out about him leaving about 2 weeks ago, and everytime i've seen him since then, i haven't been able to help but to cry, and he always comforts me & tells me he'll be back, that he promises he will and that he loves me and that as long as i don't forget about him he'll always be there with me.

My problem is, idk how to say goodbye.
I mean, in reality, i don't wanna use the word 'bye' at all.
Goodbye means going away & going away means forgetting, and i just don't want that.
But what do i say, and do?
I love him to death & wanna make sure hes positive of that before he leaves.

HELP?


My sister is away in Iraq for her second term of 15 months. She LOVES it. She says the dorms are really nice, and air conditioned, and they have a lot of nice amenities. Just know that he'll be okay and promise to write.

That's one thing my sister said she always needed - letters from home. Packages from home. Things to remind him that people back here care. :)

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give him an intimate hug or kiss one that he'll remember while hes over there and then when he gets back you guys will still be friends

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DADDYS LITTLE GIRL


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Quote: from decoyyydown at 7:02 pm on July 6, 2008

I've been through it before too, but never with a close friend.
I'm a military brat & i'm used to my dad and brothers and uncle & cousins & stuff going.
But never a friend, especially someone like him, he's like my everything, my bestfriend, i see him everyday, i care about him more so then my own bf, and now he's leaving.

Thats my problem.


yeah the fact thats its a close friend makes it harder to go through. With family its just easier to accept for me but when it comes to somebody thats close it gets difficult. my ex bf just left for Iraq a month or so ago. if you want to talk you can message me

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