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Needs Guys Point of View.. PLEASE!!
And girls why not give it a go too!
Replies: 17Last Post July 6 6:56pm by Anonymous
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Ok as simple as I can put it.

After 3 months of going out and acting all smitten Boy tells Girl he doesn't think he can commit in relationship (Boy will be moving away somewhere 3 hours away in a few months)

Girl needing commitment breaks up with Boy

Day of break up Boy goes out to party

Day after break up around 6 am Boy calls girl's best friends and tells them to look after Girl, that Girl is special and is 'THE ONLY ONE FOR HIM' quote but 'HE IS JUST NOT READY YET'.

Day after break up around 7 am Boy texts Girl asking to meet up to 'GET SOME WORDS OFF HIS CHEST'.

Girl texts Boy to come over at 12 pm same day.

Boy tells girl 'I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU' and 'WHO KNOWS IN FUTURE, IF YOU'RE STILL SINGLE AND I'M STILL SINGLE' and tells girl that every other one of his g/f he's left crying and didn't care but THIS GIRL he 'WANTS TO REMAIN FRIENDS, AND IS HURTING BECAUSE HE HAS LOST HER TRUST'

Boy begs Girl to tell him how he can win back her trust and if they can become friends and what he can do. Girl agrees, but says the trust will take time.

10 days later Boys close friend approaches Girl at party, telling her it's good that they split that from his experience Long Distance relationships never work. That girls end up leaving their guys. And that if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Friend tells Girl how much Boy cried over her and was truly sad to lose her.
Boy sends Fbook message to Girl (the same day) saying 'YOU REALLY NEED SOME THERAPY FOR THIS FACEBOOK ADDICTION. :) HOPE YOU'RE WELL... IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE WE TALKED' Girl is still recovering from broken heart and ignores Boy's attempt to cover up, and jump straight into being best buddies again.

10 days after message Girl feels motivated and feels ready to forgive Boy and attempt friendship. Girl email boys with a good luck for the future type of message.

1 day passes no response so Girl Fbooks Boy prompting him to read it. Boy responds same day saying 'THANKS. IV CHECKED IT ....... X'

3 days later of silence, Girl Fbook messages saying... 'MAYBE WE DON'T TALK BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ON MSN WHEN I AM. JUST A THOUGHT. AND THAT'S HOW I BREAK THE ICE :)'

Day after Boy comes on msn and Girl says 'HEY FANCY SEEING YOU ONLINE' no reply...
Girl nudges Boy on msn... still no reply...

Since then (a week) Girl has noticed Boy on msn about 3 times since and Boy has not initiated conversation with Girl and vice versa...

Ok, if you read all of that, well done!

My question is... Is Boy playing a game with girl... any reasons why he's behaving that way. Seriously I'm getting really depressed trying to figure THIS out, it's one of those things I may never get closure on...



6:20 pm on July 6, 2008
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gorjaz25


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no boy is worth getting this confused over and crying over
i say forget him and find someone new

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He's totally using GIRL to boost his ego. BOY doesn't want to be alone but doesn't want to be in an exclusive relationship with GIRL. My advice is to move the FUCK on. He's an ass and doesn't care about your feelings, obviously. Find another BOY, that cares about you on a DEEPER level.


And don't ever post another topic about yourself pulling that BOY, GIRL shit. Especially if it's a fucking page long.

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I don't think it's necessarily a game. As in.. he probably does care. But I'm sure you think about it a lot more than he does. He's summed up how he feels.

Oh and the whole broken heart vs friends thing.. is just crap. If you have to analyse everything he says, then don't be friends.

Post edited at 6:27 pm on July 6, 2008 by tell me again


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GAME PLAYER

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Quote: from SheMintsEclectic at 6:24 pm on July 6, 2008

He's totally using GIRL to boost his ego. BOY doesn't want to be alone but doesn't want to be in an exclusive relationship with GIRL. My advice is to move the FUCK on. He's an ass and doesn't care about your feelings, obviously. Find another BOY, that cares about you on a DEEPER level.

 
And don't ever post another topic about yourself pulling that BOY, GIRL shit. Especially if it's a fucking page long.


Hahahahahaha


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:S It's really not that long to read.. it's spaced out and the BOY/ GIRL stuff can be offputting, but i didn't want it to be too personal...

6:26 pm on July 6, 2008
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if youre the girl then the guy is fucking lucky to be given the second chance that you gave him

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alastrxxna


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he's playing games, girl.
its weird, reading this. its just like this guy i dated a few years ago. i promise you, he is playing games. i promise, promise, promise. just get over him now, and dont look back, youll save yourself A LOT of heartache. please dont be stupid with this, id really hate to see another person go through the suffering i went though.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 9:26 pm on July 6, 2008

:S It's really not that long to read.. it's spaced out and the BOY/ GIRL stuff can be offputting, but i didn't want it to be too personal...

Then use fake names, stupid.
Plus you're ANONYMOUS, what the hell?

Anyway, the guy's an idiot.  Who cares about him.
If you're three hours away, or about to be, it doesn't matter at all.

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( Anonymous )

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Ok as simple as I can put it.
After 3 months of going out and acting all smitten my ex tells me he doesn't think he can commit in relationship (he'll be moving away somewhere 3 hours away in a few months)
I need commitment so I broke up with him.
Day of break up he goes out to party (he told me later that he couldn't enjoy it, and was asking everyone how he could win my trust back)
Day after break up around 6 am he calls my best friends and tells them to look after me, that I'm  special and is 'THE ONLY ONE FOR HIM' quote but 'HE IS JUST NOT READY YET'.
Day after break up around 7 am he texts me asking to meet up to 'GET SOME WORDS OFF HIS CHEST'.
I text him to come over at 12 pm same day.
He tells me 'I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU' and 'WHO KNOWS IN FUTURE, IF YOU'RE STILL SINGLE AND I'M STILL SINGLE' and tells girl that every other one of his g/f he's left crying and didn't care but THIS GIRL he 'WANTS TO REMAIN FRIENDS, AND IS HURTING BECAUSE HE HAS LOST MY TRUST'
He begs me to tell him how he can win back my trust and if they can become friends and what he can do. I agree, but say the trust will take time.
10 days later his close friend approaches me at party, telling me it's good that we split that from his experience Long Distance relationships never work. That girls end up leaving their guys. And that if it's meant to be it's meant to be. His friend tells me how much my ex cried over me and was truly sad to lose me.
He sends me a Fbook message (the same day) saying 'YOU REALLY NEED SOME THERAPY FOR THIS FACEBOOK ADDICTION. :) HOPE YOU'RE WELL... IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE WE TALKED' Girl is still recovering from broken heart and ignores his attempt to cover up, and jump straight into being best buddies again.
10 days after message I feel motivated and feel ready to forgive him and attempt friendship. I email him with a good luck for the future type of message.
1 day passes no response so I Fbook him prompting him to read it. He responds same day saying 'THANKS. IV CHECKED IT ....... X'
3 days later of silence, I Fbook message saying... 'MAYBE WE DON'T TALK BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ON MSN WHEN I AM. JUST A THOUGHT. AND THAT'S HOW I BREAK THE ICE :)'
Day after he comes on msn and I say 'HEY FANCY SEEING YOU ONLINE' no reply...
I nudged him on msn... still no reply...
Since then (a week) I've noticed himon msn about 3 times since and he's not initiated conversation with me and vice versa...

Ok, if you read all of that, well done!

My question is... Is Boy playing a game with girl... any reasons why he's behaving that way. Seriously I'm getting really depressed trying to figure THIS out, it's one of those things I may never get closure on...


6:33 pm on July 6, 2008
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Quote: from Frisky Dingo at 2:33 am on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 9:26 pm on July 6, 2008

:S It's really not that long to read.. it's spaced out and the BOY/ GIRL stuff can be offputting, but i didn't want it to be too personal...

Then use fake names, stupid.
Plus you're ANONYMOUS, what the hell?

Anyway, the guy's an idiot. Who cares about him.
If you're three hours away, or about to be, it doesn't matter at all.



Grow up so that you don't NEED to call people you don't know STUPID!!

I chose not to use fake names, you could have chosen not to read the damn thing.


6:35 pm on July 6, 2008
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maybe he's so sad that u 2 cant be together properly (as he;s moving) that he doesnt want to get too close to you again, knowing he has to leave.

or maybe he's a prick,

havent decided yet. :)

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