Post edited at 1:50 pm on July 4, 2008 by tola

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It's more important that your child has steady contact with his/her father than it is for you to have a relationship with him. My advice would be for you two to take a break in the romantic side of your relationship. I think you both need some time apart to sort out your thoughts so you can both decide what you really want.

Although your child is young, children pick up on bad atmospheres. It's not healthy for any child to be around constant arguments.

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You two need a break. A relationship where you break up as often as you two did isn't healthy. Remember, you need to seperate the relationship with him as a father, and him as your boyfriend.

It's more important that your child has steady contact with his/her father than it is for you to have a relationship with him. My advice would be for you two to take a break in the romantic side of your relationship. I think you both need some time apart to sort out your thoughts so you can both decide what you really want.  

Although your child is young, children pick up on bad atmospheres. It's not healthy for any child to be around constant arguments.

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I would agree with all of this but I think that during this break you should be seeing a marriage counsellor together and also separately. I also found it interesting that in your post that started off mentioning your baby's father, you only talked about yourself and what you are missing. Frankly you sound really young and inexperienced at parenting and relationships. When you had a baby your world stopped being about you and what you want. You need to spend the next 18 years or so raising a good child and you'll need to work out a way to do that with the father. Missing him or loving him has to come seconds. Those are the rules,lol!

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A Parent, old geezer, and occasionally right. Good judgment comes from bad
experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.

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You two need a break. A relationship where you break up as often as you two did isn't healthy. Remember, you need to seperate the relationship with him as a father, and him as your boyfriend.

It's more important that your child has steady contact with his/her father than it is for you to have a relationship with him. My advice would be for you two to take a break in the romantic side of your relationship. I think you both need some time apart to sort out your thoughts so you can both decide what you really want.  

Although your child is young, children pick up on bad atmospheres. It's not healthy for any child to be around constant arguments.

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agreed. it's not good for your baby