Ive been w/ my bf for almost 2 years now. weve been going through some problems. we argue quite abit now. A couple weeks ago he decides to break up with me then realizes he wants to work on things and see if we can work our problems out. In order to do this, we are moving 30 miles away from his hometown and friends. The big problem is...his friends. he seems to want to spend all kinds of time with his friends instead of me. I get upset and start arguing and nagging him about it. Grant you i know im not right for doing this, but neither is he. he cant seem to realize that what he is doing is wrong and hurtful. He makes no attempt anymore to be with me, just his friends. ive t ried talking over and over to him about it then he gets mad and says im nagging again and that it just wont work. im starting to believe its not going to work. His friends hate me, and i hate them...but how do i get my boyfriend to realize what hes doing wtihout throwing 2 years away??
7:59 pm on July 4, 2008
kylekangaroo
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just talk to him..talking does work...
-Kyle
Post edited at 8:10 pm on July 4, 2008 by branflakes
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ive tried talking, it just ends in more arguments cuz he thinks im bitching.
8:00 pm on July 4, 2008
ilyjosh
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Uh, you tell him?
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i tell him what i think is wrong in our relationship, i tell him the reasons i get upset and mad, i tell him that i get upset and hurt by some of the things he does...