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Say yes or no, please help!!!!
Replies: 14Last Post July 4 2:53pm by babybluebitch
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Choice Votes Percent  
Say yes. 19 73%
Say no. 7 26%
Vote Now! 26 Votes Cast
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Okaay.
My friend thinks this guy is going to ask me out tomorrow.
And she likes him. When I started liking him I didn't know that she liked him as she never told me. i heard off other people. All this week people have been pissed at me and all my friends have been mad at each other. Now, it's gotten good again.
But, my friend is asking me what I'll say.
If I say yes, then I'd be hurting her.
If I say no, I'd be hurting myself and him.
'cause I really like him..
please help.

2:28 pm on July 4, 2008
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NO, THATS BOGUS

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BananaPancake


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I would ask her if she would be upset if you said yes. If it would hurt her, I would tell him no. Friendships are more important.

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say yes cause he doesn't like her so she should move on and he likes u

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cowgirlyehaa


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Say yes. And tell your friend the truth. How you didn't know you liked him when you like him.
If he is asking you, that means he likes YOU.
Because I bet you, if your crush asked your best friend out, she'd say yes.

She's just bitter cause the guy she likes, likes someone else.
If she can't be friends with you because of a guy, then she wasn't worth friendship anyways.


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applebee33


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personally, i think your friends should suck it up. they should want you to be happy. he likes you and you like him. they're just jealous cause they cant get a guy. you should say yes and have them deal with it

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talk to her about it if she wants to put her own feelings/desires(that wont happen) above your happiness then shes not a very good friend but also if you put your happiness above your friendship with her neither are you...

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i would speak to her and say that you want to say yes but won't do if it'll get in the way of your friendship and see what she says. she should wnt you to be happy after all and you're being nice enough to check with her.

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erolimo


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It is your life, not hers.

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acmilanfan3


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Say YES

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say yes, but talk to her, explain that you'll be just as hurt as her if you say no, if she was a good friend she'd deal with it.

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Quote: from applebee33 at 4:33 pm on July 4, 2008

personally, i think your friends should suck it up. they should want you to be happy. he likes you and you like him. they're just jealous cause they cant get a guy. you should say yes and have them deal with it

I agree, if the guy likes you and you like him then be happy. And a friend not ok with that may not be a friend worth keeping

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bekkibaby34


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like most of the others said ur friends should want u to be happy...but at the same time friends r more important than bfs so ultimatly its ur decision but think about how much this guy means to u and how much ur friends mean to u and u will make the right decision in the end...btw i would say yes to the guy and explain to my friends how much i like him and that they will find bfs too

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BOOM BOOM BOOMx3


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do what YOU want.
don't worry about what other people want.
you have to be able to take care of yourself before you start worrying about others.
if you don't do what you want you're going to regret it.
so say yes to him, but talk to her about it.
and tell her you weren't trying to hurt her.

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babybluebitch


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i say YES but  on the other side i say YES so the answer is YES

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