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Alright so me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex. We have talked alot about it, and have been since about 6 months of being together. It's now 8 and after discussing alot we feel we have solved all of our problems but one. We are each worried about what happens after. Anyone been in a relationship were they both lost it? Are you still together? Did one of you get screwed over? Did things change? Please just answer the question and not discuss if we are ready or not. (preventions covered: bc and condoms so don't worry)
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MyFavoriteAccident
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months, and the 4th month we decided to have sex. We lost it to eachother, we're still together and we got even closter. :)
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I love you John; November 10, 2007
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me and my bf were both virgins when we had sex and were still together and love each other and it really brought us closer sharing this experience together so don't worry as long as you work hard at loving each other cause not gonna lie love is hard work but you will be fine don't worry :)
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jsgirl
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I guess it depends on the person.
Sometimes it can bring you closer together, other times it can tear you apart.
But love is love and if you are really ready, you'll know that after you will still belong together.
There's your answer.
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Who'd ever think you'd go and end up...
Like all the other guys that I've gone and fuccked?
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DarkSunshine
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yes my boyfriend and were both virgins when we started going out ( I was more experienced in the foreplay stuff from previous relationships though) We had sex at 2 month's in the relationship and we have now been going out for 1 year and almost 5 months. If you are both ready for it, and you both care about each other you will be fine. I will however tell you that we both have one regret about having sex, and it was having sex that early into the relationship. We don't regret having sex with each other just having sex so early, you know? mind you we were two months in and your 8 months so you'll probabaly be good. Just take it into consideration k?
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Life's not fair, It's just fairer then death, That's all
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LindaRains93
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sex before marrige is risky in my thoughts
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Linda Raines
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tearsinheaven
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well, i can hardly answer this question, because we just lost our virginities to each other last night. we've been together 9 months, we discussed it, but not in great detail. pretty much all we knew is that we were both ready, and wanted to try. we were planning on using condoms (i'm on the pill as well), but as it turns out it happened at my house where we have no condoms. but here's the immediate afterthoughts:
- he feels a little bad because he knows it hurt me a lot (we had to stop because it hurt), but i'm making sure he knows that's how it is, and that i still want to keep trying
- so far, there's been no real change, other than we might have gotten closer already
- it definitely increases your comfort level right away, because there's nothing more intimate 2 people can do together
- just be prepared to help each other through it, because it's definitely not going to be easy
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RIP my dear friends gone in '06 --like the angel
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me and my bf were both virgins when we had sex and were still together and love each other and it really brought us closer sharing this experience together so don't worry as long as you work hard at loving each other cause not gonna lie love is hard work but you will be fine don't worry :) 
