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i am scum
my situation
Replies: 7Last Post July 6 10:51pm by StillDreaming08
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Ok, so i have a situation.  I found a girl that i cant stop thinking about, i am an art major and so is she, and she is perfect for me and we have alot of stuff in common. We are best friends and have never had an arguement.  We had a few classes together and everything was perfect.  our friendship had some vague flirting and i could sense some sexual tension sometimes, but this brings up the problem.  She has a boyfriend of a year.  Well that was all well and good, and our friendship went fine, until we kissed.  yeah, i didnt know how to handle the situation because she had a boyfriend who she was happy with, but it was a mutual kiss.  and then kissing  here and there slowly progressed to making out, and that slowly progressed over the next couple weeks into rubbing and heavy making out, and then more foreplay and fondling.  This is where it got awkward, SEX. This wasnt just hey there mr. peep, how are you doing ms. Vajayjay, this was passionate marathon lovemaking. school was soon over and, our relationship had never been better, i talked to her about what we were going to do over the summer, she said she was going to stay with him until he went to colege. She said she would break up with him after summer, but now she said she doesnt want to keep my hopes up and i have been staying single throughout this whole thing, and she wants me to date until she breaks up with him.  That is so unfair to me, so i have to cater to her relationship, on her time and stay available, she has told me she could see herself marrying me, and she says she loves me, i have never been truly in love, but i think she might be the one, i went on vacation with her family and they adore me.  of course her boyfriend is getting really jealous throughout this. and it is causing stress on their relationship, and this is all weighing heavily on me, i have never been a cheater and have never had sex with anyone outside of a relationship untill now, she has only ever had three boyfriends before, for 3 years one year and then her current one of a year. she has never cheated before and i just wish i knew what to do. can anyone help?

10:36 pm on July 6, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 2 Days Active
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JuggaletteBaby


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not me =/

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MushroomSatsujin is my bestest friend =]

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bobs

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yes you are

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StillDreaming08


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You can't have your cake and eat it too and that's what she needs to understand. You can't just wear your heart on your sleeve anytime she comes around. It's your decision if you want to be just the "other guy" and not the boyfriend.

10:42 pm on July 6, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 10 Days Active
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i love her i didnt mean to cheat.

10:43 pm on July 6, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 2 Days Active
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well i want to be more, but i know i never will be at this rate, i am always going to be the other guy... i have to face it

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Steel Ebola


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Sorry to tell you but yes you are scum

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Now you're thinking with portals.

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StillDreaming08


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How are you the cheater if she is the one with boyfriend? and do you want to be just the other guy?

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