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Replies: 1Last Post July 8 7:42pm by Decadence
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is it bad that I'm nice to every one. I mean I don't do anything mean to any one and those same people are still jerks. So I guess my question is is it worth it being nice to everyone all the time?

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7:24 pm on July 8, 2008 | Joined June 2008 | 54 Days Active
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Hey, while it's all well and good to not hold grudges and be a pleasant individual, you need to be careful that you don't allow people to walkover you and be a pushover. You need to learn to be assertive and stand up for yourself, when needs be. That doesn't mean to say you will be considered an unkind individual, but you need to respect yourself.
For tips on developing some assertiveness techniques, visit this  and this website.
A key component of assertiveness is confidence. You need to be able to speak your own mind. Check out this website for some great advice.
Also, a major factor of your personality would be your self esteem. Do you value yourself enough? As I said, it is good to be nice and kind to others, but you still need to realise when you need take action for yourself. Check out this link for some more useful advice.
Finally, for some more information, visit this website.
Just visit those links and follow the advice and exercises to be a more confident individual.

Good luck.


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