I wanted to start a Gridiron club at my school for girls. Turns out, this girl has the same exact idea I do. I messaged her on Facebook, and yup, same idea.

The thing is, I've thought this out a lot more than she has (or so it appears to). I've got EXACT events in my head, sponspored activities, etc. etc, partially because my brother plays football for a college team, and I do this a lot.

After some inspecting, it seems like this girl, as nice as she is, does not have a lot of reach. I'm putting that nicely, but what I mean is, the club will consist of her friends only, so far, she only has 6 people interested.

I want the club to be filled with a diverse group of people. And yes, I want to be leader.

Should I, even though I've talked to her, make the club right over hers? I REALLY want to make it. I've been wanting to make it for a really long time, and i got ideas from my bro's coach.

[Like I said earlier, I could be completely wrong. Facebook often doesn't depict people as they are in real life. She could have a lot of reach, and be a better leader than myself.]

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sounds fine to me honestly why dont yall both lead it yourselfs.?

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Do you mean lead it together?

But..you could team up together and form a larger group. She may not be as prepared but if she was thinking of it too, she may have more ideas. Its  win/win.

-You'd still be a leader.  
-It would be a larger group.
- You'd still have your group.

Don't wait and let her create it before you. Talk to her and see if you two could work it out.

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They're people who want to screw around all the time,
which interests me not at all.
God knows we've done that, been there,
and we don't want to do that any more.