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Um.. is it a bad idea to lose it now?
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Replies: 9Last Post Dec. 1, 2008 4:06pm by SimplisticComplexity
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I'm 15.. and well I like this guy and he's like me for well over a year now! he's 17. It might seem dodgey but ive known him for soo long and were such good friends.
He wants to go out with me but i havent long finished with a relationship so obviously hes letting me have my space.
I'm a virgin and well we know we like eachother.. He offered me sex on the weekend coming.
I kinda feel left out of the group cause im kinda not  as experienced as them plus my bestmate has had sex. SHould I? My mum would KILL me if she found out.. Should I wait till im 16? :/ Does it really make ANY difference what so ever? help ? :)

2:24 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
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GOOD FRIENDS DONT HAVE SEX>

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Don't consider who has had sex and who hasn't. If you want to, go for it. I would say that if you're safe about it, it doesn't make any difference whatsoever, but a lot of girls think losing their virginity is a big deal. It all depends on how you feel about it.

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Keego05


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Do you want to have sex? and not just to try it. Could you see your self having a serious sexual relationship? If not it is probably a bad idea because the lad will start pressuring you if you don't keep it up.

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ocdbabe


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you should wait until you two are going out at least.

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yellowsapphire


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You'll regret losing it.

Losing it because all of your friends supposedly have is incredibly bad. Do you not have a mind of your own?

Do it when you're ready to, not cos you think all your friends are (and I bet you not all will be!)


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AshleyShanae


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if you wont regret it go for it cause you never know when your gonna die.    not tryna be funny,im serious

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The Fantasy


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he 'offered' you sex?
what like, 'i will do it with you this saturday if you like. '

but yeah, do what you want.

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BornUNHAPPY

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Yes, it does make a difference. You don't wanna regret anything.

Most people regret not saving it for marriage. Think of how romantic and different that wedding night can be!


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You sound very young and immature.  You want to have sex because "everybody else" has?  Hun, don't worry about what your friends have done.  Don't just do it to "fit in".  It's not a race to see who has gotten laid first or who is the most experienced.  That is ridiculous.  

Also, I find it very interesting that he "offered" you sex.  Like he was doing you some favor or something.  I think he's just some horny guy who's going to end up hurting you down the line.  

And how much do you know about birth control and the possible consequences?  Have you done some research regarding that?

I don't know, sounds to me like you're not ready, you want to have sex for the wrong reasons.  

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