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My so called firend
Replies: 2Last Post Nov. 26, 2009 12:28pm by Raineangel
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Anywho, I have known this girl for almost 2 years, we have been firends and I have helped her through alot, trusted her for nothing....
You see her step dad died, she called and told me, I cired right along with her, it really fucked her up, and it broke my heart to see her go through alot more pain on top of what was going on. I was scared she'd try to kill herself, so I informed our friends, and asked for help, told them to keep an eye out for her. Also there was a dude who was bugging her so I told him to lay off.
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My firend asked me if I was pregant, i told him no, and it turned out my firend did that. She did simillar hurtful rumors on top of this, and lied about doing it until she admited it. i was pissed and she only told me to cut my throat instead of my wrists. I didn't tell on her, didn't hit her or do anything, but my mom found out when I was crying. And she called her mom, and now she is saying  she'll tell all my secrets if I get her kicked out of school when she is leaving at the end of the month, or so she says. But what I don't get is she is still a a little pissed at me, and keeps asking my friends how I am, buecause she is too scared to ask me.

What do I do? I don't want to get in trouble or have her spread more stuff, but I'm sick of this



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Loved you forever, now it's over.


4:47 pm on Nov. 15, 2009 | Joined: Sep. 2009 | Days Active: 37
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You have to learn to stand up for yourself. She treated you awful and you don't deserve that. She obviously wasn't a true friend if she's going to spread rumours about you. She's probably only asking about how you are because now that you're gone she realizes she misses you. It's possible that she knows what she did was wrong but then again she may not care.

Honestly, I think you and her need to have a talk. She needs to accept what she did and give you an explanation as to why. You were nothing but a good friend to her and she hurt you.

You can't control what people do or say so even if you want her to not spread more stuff about you, that's not really your call. She'll do what she wants because she has free will. You can only hope that your friendship meant something and she won't go any farther. Also, you just have to hope that she doesn't tell your secrets. I mean, it's hard to have to worry about that because I'm sure they're very personal but again, you have no say in that.

I don't understand what you could get in trouble for? You've done nothing wrong. Don't let her hold things over your head just because you don't want her to spread more things. You need to show her that you're strong and she can't intimidate you.

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thank you, and you see I went to the princple, but I don't know what's going on, so mabye I should pop in and see

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12:28 pm on Nov. 26, 2009 | Joined: Sep. 2009 | Days Active: 37
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