i don't really know what to do with myself...because i love having someone there for me, i love being in loveeee. but i can never be stable in relationships....
should i just fall into the world of hook ups? i would rather notttt....
and why do you think im this way/how do i fix it? anyone else like this?

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its a good thing i'm wishin, come on sweet thing :)

And if you want to hook up do it, otherwise don't.  Just wait for someone good to come around.  

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You suck.

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Relationships arent for everyone.

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the thing is, i love being in them for the most parttttt.
but i always miss jus having fun too..

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its a good thing i'm wishin, come on sweet thing :)

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No you aren't ready for a relationship, you know why? Because you are just in love with love. You don't actually love anyone. When you are mature enough emotionally to be in love with someone then you will be ready. But don't force anything on you it can just cause bad feelings between people

And if you want to hook up do it, otherwise don't. Just wait for someone good to come around.

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thankyou:] i think you're right!

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its a good thing i'm wishin, come on sweet thing :)

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Quote: from pclueless92 at 12:19 pm on Nov. 24, 2009

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No you aren't ready for a relationship, you know why?  Because you are just in love with love.  You don't actually love anyone.  When you are mature enough emotionally to be in love with someone then you will be ready.  But don't force anything on you it can just cause bad feelings between people    

 And if you want to hook up do it, otherwise don't.  Just wait for someone good to come around.  

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thankyou:] i think you're right!

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yourwelcome  

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You suck.

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i'm 17 and it's my senior year of high school. in the last year, i've had four boyfriends....and obvsiously they didn't last too long.
i did the dumping every time.
i really love my best friend, my last boyfriend but it got weird and idk, i've tried getting him back but it doesn't seem like that's going to happen...

i don't really know what to do with myself...because i love having someone there for me, i love being in loveeee. but i can never be stable in relationships....
should i just fall into the world of hook ups? i would rather notttt....
and why do you think im this way/how do i fix it? anyone else like this?

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What is it that you want out of a relationship? Answer that question, and you'll have a big piece of the answer to relationships - and it's a lot harder to answer than you think. I'm not talking about details like favorite colors or what you want your partner to do in situation X, Y, and Z.

I'm talking about what kind of relationship do you want? What kinds of things do you want to share with someone else and why?

Sometimes you can only answer those in hindsight, but make sure you're trying at least.

Also, I'd like to point out that high school is probably the worst place for relationships since nobody knows what they want, and worse, they all think they do.

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Atheistic agnostic, political independent,polyamorist
Polyamory FAQ Relationships

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Quote: from Peace Love Drea at 1:16 pm on Nov. 24, 2009

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i'm 17 and it's my senior year of high school. in the last year, i've had four boyfriends....and obvsiously they didn't last too long.  
 i did the dumping every time.  
 i really love my best friend, my last boyfriend but it got weird and idk, i've tried getting him back but it doesn't seem like that's going to happen...  

 i don't really know what to do with myself...because i love having someone there for me, i love being in loveeee. but i can never be stable in relationships....  
 should i just fall into the world of hook ups? i would rather notttt....  
 and why do you think im this way/how do i fix it? anyone else like this?

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Have you tried looking at why you're unstable in relationships?

What is it that you want out of a relationship? Answer that question, and you'll have a big piece of the answer to relationships - and it's a lot harder to answer than you think. I'm not talking about details like favorite colors or what you want your partner to do in situation X, Y, and Z.

I'm talking about what kind of relationship do you want? What kinds of things do you want to share with someone else and why?

Sometimes you can only answer those in hindsight, but make sure you're trying at least.

Also, I'd like to point out that high school is probably the worst place for relationships since nobody knows what they want, and worse, they all think they do.

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yeah, that makes sense too.
with all the other guys, it was just typical boyfriend stuff....hooking up, hanging out with friends...no t r u e connection like i really needed....or you could tell we weren't "meant" to be
with my best friend, pretty much everything was perfect. we were crazy about eachother and it wasn't like all my other relationships. the main thing that bothered me was that he smoked weed....

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its a good thing i'm wishin, come on sweet thing :)