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No this isn't a suicide topic XD

But anyway, I just started college so I left my full time job and am unemployed. Well I've been spending all my money literally on my computer upgradings its already powerful parts. The thing is, applying online for jobs is EASY. But when it comes to doing paper applications, I just can't do it.

I've applied online to pretty much everywhere possible around here, but Movie Gallery (movie rental place) requires to print the application and take it in to the place.

But I can't do that person to person interaction, even though it's for one second. I'm not shy, I'm very otugoing and don't have problems with talking to new people. But I have a fear of asking for an application, and obviously turning one in.

Help?

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That's common, believe it or not. To come around this problem, why not get a friend or relative to do this for you?

Do you get stuck on interviews?


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Quote: from Seanee at 1:24 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

That's common, believe it or not. To come around this problem, why not get a friend or relative to do this for you?

Do you get stuck on interviews?


Interviews are easy. Just turning the application in is a phobia I guess.

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I'm basically the same as you, but you just have to suck it up and ask. If you get the job, that 2 seconds will be worth it.

Good luck!

Post edited at 10:26 am on Sep. 5, 2008 by MiSS SARAH

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Quote: from MiSS SARAH at 1:25 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

I'm basically the same as you, but you just have to suck it up and ask. If you get the job, that 2 seconds will be worth it.

Good luck!


I don't have to ask, I got the application printed out.

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Quote: from Eclipse2005 at 1:25 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

Quote: from Seanee at 1:24 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

That's common, believe it or not. To come around this problem, why not get a friend or relative to do this for you?  

 Do you get stuck on interviews?


Interviews are easy. Just turning the application in is a phobia I guess.


If you are nervous for any part of the job hunting process, get a friend or family member to help you practice. Even practicing in the mirror helps, but the social interaction would be better. When turning in the application, go to the place of business during low-hours. There's a more specific word for it, but I can't think of that word at the moment, basically, when they aren't busy. {LOL}
Anyway, go in and ask to speak to the manager politely, and don't think about it too much, clear your head, and practice calming exercises if you need to. When the manager comes out, just be yourself, and relax.
I know it's not the best advice, but at least it can help a tiny bit.


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Quote: from SilverDragon1Wings at 1:29 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

Quote: from Eclipse2005 at 1:25 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

Quote: from Seanee at 1:24 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

That's common, believe it or not. To come around this problem, why not get a friend or relative to do this for you?

  Do you get stuck on interviews?


 

 Interviews are easy. Just turning the application in is a phobia I guess.


If you are nervous for any part of the job hunting process, get a friend or family member to help you practice. Even practicing in the mirror helps, but the social interaction would be better. When turning in the application, go to the place of business during low-hours. There's a more specific word for it, but I can't think of that word at the moment, basically, when they aren't busy. {LOL}
Anyway, go in and ask to speak to the manager politely, and don't think about it too much, clear your head, and practice calming exercises if you need to. When the manager comes out, just be yourself, and relax.
I know it's not the best advice, but at least it can help a tiny bit.


You mean give the application directly to the manager

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Quote: from Eclipse2005 at 10:26 am on Sep. 5, 2008

Quote: from MiSS SARAH at 1:25 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

I'm basically the same as you, but you just have to suck it up and ask. If you get the job, that 2 seconds will be worth it.  

 Good luck!


I don't have to ask, I got the application printed out.



Oh ok, well i guess my same advice still applies...Suck it up and do it, but i know it's usually easier said than done... How many apps did u do online? Maybe you will get one of those jobs and you won't even have to turn in that application.

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I did an app to 2 different Lowe's locations, a Best Buy app, a Staples app, and a PetSmart app for a stocker...


I did all those apps like Tuesday night I think and never got called =\

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Yes, give the application to the manager. This should be done for many reasons, although you don't have to.

If you give the app to the manager, they may be free to look it over right away and ask you questions. This can lead to more interest and faster interviews.

Managers like it when applicants hand them the papers, because it shows that you are interested in the job.

Also, I've been in several jobs where I've noticed employees don't handle applications well. Sometimes the employees are uninterested and lazy, and don't tell the managers that somebody has handed an app in.

And, by handing in the application to the manager, you get a chance to meet them face to face, this way, when you call in to see if the app has been checked over, they may be more likely to remember you.


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Quote: from Eclipse2005 at 10:34 am on Sep. 5, 2008

I did an app to 2 different Lowe's locations, a Best Buy app, a Staples app, and a PetSmart app for a stocker...

 
I did all those apps like Tuesday night I think and never got called =\



Oh, you should probably give it a few more days. How much work experience do you have?

I'm not sure if you have these around where you live, but these are some places I know of that you can apply online.


Home Depot
Blockbuster
Walgreens
Bookstores like Barnes&Noble and Borders
Wal-mart
Target
Toys 'R' Us

And also you should check Craigslist, I've found jobs on there before...

Hope that helps a little, if i think of anymore I'll post


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I did customer service at a local grocery store (cashier/counter clerk/stocking) for 2 years, then worked full time at a distribution center for 2 months, quit for college.

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Quote: from Eclipse2005 at 1:45 pm on Sep. 5, 2008

I did customer service at a local grocery store (cashier/counter clerk/stocking) for 2 years, then worked full time at a distribution center for 2 months, quit for college.

And BTW;

A lesson I've learned the hard way; don't wait for them to call you, call them yourself. Jobs that say 'don't call us, we'll call you' are harder to deal with, as most of the time they have strict requirements and usually only say that when they aren't interested. I've applied to Borders and Blockbuster before, and I've been told quite rudely that they did not appreciate my inquiry on my application.

Do you attend college full time or part time? It will be quite hard to find jobs, and stick with them without being exhausted, during this time, and that is the biggest problem among college students who work or are looking to work. I am actually in that position now, and wish I had the opportunity to skip off on college while I need money the most at this time.


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