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I'm a failure.
Replies: 14Last Post Sep. 7 9:35pm by Bitner
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I've liked this girl, a pretty good friend of mine, for a while. She doesn't know it. When I liked her, she had a boyfriend.

He broke up with her a few months later, and I didn't make a move then because I didn't think she was ready to commit to a relationship so soon after one ended and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)

Prom came by a few weeks later and she then went out with the guy she went to prom with.

Ugh. I'm disappointed, though I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.

Oh well, they're probably happy together anyway. And I'd probably make a terrible boyfriend anyway.

I'm such a failure. I have failed enough. I give up on high school relationships.  

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i fail.


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VirtusInternus


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yep u will fail if you think like that. that's just it you fail in your thinking.think positive
man up, go after the girl you like and for every knock back out of say 10, you will get 2 or 4.accentuate the good you have in life.

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Yawn. I've failed at more than that, buddy.

Life goes on. Failure is meaningless.

Accept the fact that you only truly "fail" when you die.

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Bitner


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Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)

I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?

She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?


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LightThisCity


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Keep thinking that way. Wou will go far in life.

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Quote: from Bitner at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)  

I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?

She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?


No. I said I did NOT want to make her cheat or disrupt her relationship AT ALL.

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i fail.


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Maybe it would be better to wait until after high school when girls will/should be more mature for a relationship and you will too.

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Quote: from Bacon at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Yawn. I've failed at more than that, buddy.  

Life goes on. Failure is meaningless.  

Accept the fact that you only truly "fail" when you die.


I've had quite many more fails than that.

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Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:06 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)

 I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


 

 Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?  

 She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?  

 


No. I said I did NOT want to make her cheat or disrupt her relationship AT ALL.


you clarify nothing, clarify this:

tell me how you might make her want to cheat when she doesn't even like you.


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Quote: from LightThisCity at 4:05 pm on Sep. 8, 2008

Keep thinking that way. Wou will go far in life.

wes wou will  

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Quote: from Bitner at 12:09 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:06 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)    

  I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


  Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?

  She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?

 


 

 No. I said I did NOT want to make her cheat or disrupt her relationship AT ALL.


you clarify nothing, clarify this:

tell me how you might make her want to cheat when she doesn't even like you.


I don't have a method of doing that, so therefore I can't.

Don't quite see your point.

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i fail.


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Quote: from VirtusInternus at 12:11 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from LightThisCity at 4:05 pm on Sep. 8, 2008

Keep thinking that way. Wou will go far in life.

wes wou will


Are you a fucking queer?

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Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:12 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:09 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:06 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)

  I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


   

  Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?    

  She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?    

 


  No. I said I did NOT want to make her cheat or disrupt her relationship AT ALL.


 

 you clarify nothing, clarify this:  

 tell me how you might make her want to cheat when she doesn't even like you.  

 


I don't have a method of doing that, so therefore I can't.

Don't quite see your point.


No?

You are concerned about making her cheat or disrupt her relationship. I'm wondering why the thought is there.

You clearly are in no position to cause anything of the like.

But you are concerned about it.


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Quote: from Bitner at 12:15 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:12 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:09 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:06 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)      

   I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


   Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?

   She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?

   


   

  No. I said I did NOT want to make her cheat or disrupt her relationship AT ALL.


  you clarify nothing, clarify this:

  tell me how you might make her want to cheat when she doesn't even like you.

 


 

 I don't have a method of doing that, so therefore I can't.  

 Don't quite see your point.


No?

You are concerned about making her cheat or disrupt her relationship. I'm wondering why the thought is there.

You clearly are in no position to cause anything of the like.

But you are concerned about it.

 


Ah, okay, understandable.

I'm concerned that if I flirt with her while she is in a relationship, that will be disrupting her relationship.

So I don't.

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i fail.


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Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:20 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:15 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:12 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:09 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:06 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from Bitner at 12:04 am on Sep. 8, 2008

Quote: from hateitandloveit at 7:01 am on Sep. 8, 2008

and that I knew she didn't like me (no girls like me.)

    I'd rather die than disrupt her relationship or make her cheat or anything.


     

    Notice how the two extracts make you look like a bigger failure?      

    She doesn't like you, no girls like you, but you're going to entice this girl into cheating?      

   


   No. I said I did NOT want to make her cheat or disrupt her relationship AT ALL.


   

  you clarify nothing, clarify this:    

  tell me how you might make her want to cheat when she doesn't even like you.    

 


  I don't have a method of doing that, so therefore I can't.

  Don't quite see your point.


 

 No?  

 You are concerned about making her cheat or disrupt her relationship. I'm wondering why the thought is there.  

 You clearly are in no position to cause anything of the like.  

 But you are concerned about it.  

 


Ah, okay, understandable.

I'm concerned that if I flirt with her while she is in a relationship, that will be disrupting her relationship.  

So I don't.


Try. What would you lose? besides your ego if she doesn't care.

who knows, if you're not a complete ass about flirting maybe she'd like you


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