So I want to move on and stop thinking about her, and I'm not sure whether I should remain friends with her or abandon her completely. I don't know if I will get over her if I'm always around her (which we are, because we have the same friends). But she's a great person, and our relationship was hardly romantic anyway. The break up is more of just an officlal thing. But I can't help but think that since I like her in a more romantic way than she likes me, that I should just avoid her completely. But that's so so hard.

And also, how long do I need to wait until another girl I might like will be legitimate and not rebound-material? I just want to get the hell over my ex ("ex" sounds bad--she's really a friend)