My friend sorta pointed out this guy i might like at a disco, he went to her old school and since i tend to like the more serious type of guy who isnt jumping into bed with every girl she said he was quite perfect. Well i did think he was cute, we exchanged lots of eye contact.. he kept looking over at me but i didn't have the courage to say hey there so i spoke to him online instead and we've been talking since..
In the first weeks we were talking we spoke LOTS.. he invited me to the next disco but i couldn't go.. he asked for my number and texts me a lot too.. then the next disco came up and he was like 'are u goin?'
but i said sorry i couldn't.. (it really wasn't rejection i had a really early morning the next day) and now i haven't heard from him as much, he still emails and texts but it's far less frequent..
I feel like i'm sorta pushing him away without meaning to and i dont know how to get things to pick up.. i'm really busy for the next few weeks too so i can't suggest meeting up.. and i have tried being the first one to text and email but things really have slowed since the 2nd time i said i couldn't go :/