My boyfriend has a constant lying problem. It only happens really when were in NH around this one girl. Theirs a long history there. (Cheating, 3somes, ect)  

One night he told me he was going to his friends house to play vid games and he spent the first 45 mins at her place (she has a bf now who lives with her and her mom)

I would have wanted to go to instead of being bored! He told me the truth later that night because he felt guilty.  

The second time we had to go to my moms so he said he was going to go visit his dad. He told me I could stop by after my moms. He said he left his dads early and went back to my grandmothers (where we were staying) and gave me this big thing about how they "reconnected" and how he should have listened to me before when I told him to visit him.  

I found out the second time the next day when she texted him saying "ok I won't tell her you were here last night" And yes I would have wanted him not to go there the second time at all. He told me she said she wanted to hook up with him again.  

He said he would never go down that road again. I told him I thought he went to her place both times and he denied it both times before I found out the truth both times.  

I don't know how or when to trust him anymore :( He earned that trust back but now it's gone again. And I have no idea how to feel.

Am I over reacting? she also told me she just wants to be friends with both of us, and doesn't want to get in the middle of anything. She shouldn't have fucked him in the first place right? Me and her would have been really good friends without that...

Post edited at 7:07 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 by Nicole something89

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