Hey lw,
I haven't seen one of my friends recently, like for a little while now, I know for the most part they are busy with stuff, like always, even when I hung with them they would still mostly be working on stuff.
Anyway what I am wondering is, I told them I would always be there for them, always care about them, and that i always wanted to be a part of their life. They told me before that they wanted me around, that they cared and they haven't ever given me a reason to think that something is amiss. The thing is, their bf came to me and told me the other day that they want me out of their lives and that I am causing harm to them. I told the bf that I would never want to harm my friend and that I had been through a lot with them and that I would not contact them or be around them IF they themselves didn't want me around.  

I wouldn't do anything like stay away from them because of the bf but I would if my friend really didn't want me around, after all I love them , and I'd rather die then hurt them.

Ok so this is my question, we've been through a lot together, is it alright to assume that the bf and my friend may have conflicting ideas on my being around since this has happened before and I should wait till they contact me, to ask what they really think? Or should I just stay away and if my friend still does want me then I should tell her to fight for me so to speak against the bf so that he knows I'm not going around him, and being an asshole?  

Cause truthfully I'm the kinda person to keep my word when I give it, no matter who I give it to. I also said though as long as they don't want me around I will stay away, that doesn't mean the bf. I believe that I have a right to be there if they want me around even if the bf doesn't. Not trying to start shit, I know they are close, it's just I highly doubt that my friend wants me gone, we have been through more together than most people will ever see in a lifetime.

Post edited at 3:42 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 by Anonymous