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In your opinion, is this considered cheating ?
Replies: 12Last Post Oct. 6 4:02pm by runthespread
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( MissCherry )


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A while back, I was pretty tipsy at a small birthday party.
We had to sit outside and eat because we weren't allowed in yet, and it was freezing. .
There were some blankets, so me and this guy were sharing one, and cuddling . . (he was tipsy as well)

He put his hands between my thighs, and I didn't really think it was a big deal so I didn't stop him or anything. He was rubbing my legs . .
I didn't care, until after wards, I started feeling guilty because I have a boyfriend .
I'm . . not even sure if that's considered cheating? I didn't do anything to him. . It was cuddling, but still ?
I'm a very jealous person myself, and if I knew my boyfriend was doing this behind my back, I'd get mad because I get mad over silly little things anyway . .
I just wanted to know other peoples' opinions because it's been bugging me . .  

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I'd say so.

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ilessthanthreeyouu


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A. If you have to ask, yes.
B. You shouldn't be cuddling with other boys when you have a boyfriend.

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katiescarlett


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Technically, I wouldn't say so...
But it's not exactly the most loyal of all things.

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( MissCherry )


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Quote: from z0mbie at 11:52 pm on Oct. 6, 2008

I'd say so.

Please be more specific
I'm not trying to go against you or anything,
but explain why you think so?
So that maybe I could understand more. .  im just really confused right now.

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smmayy


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technically no. but yes. if that makes sense.

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ice318


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Maybe not cheating, but not a good thing either... I definitely would NOT be cuddling with other guys if I have a boyfriend (well, except some of our really good guy friends... our crew does a fair bit of Ecstasy lol, so we ALL cuddle a lot. I don't think twice about sleeping in the same bed as a few of my buddies... but guys outside the crew, no way)

If you ever feel guilty or try to hide something, or would get upset if he did the same thing... you should NOT be doing it. What you did is pretty borderline.


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Slut }:]

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( MissCherry )


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Quote: from MissCherry at 11:51 pm on Oct. 6, 2008

A while back, I was pretty tipsy at a small birthday party.
We had to sit outside and eat because we weren't allowed in yet, and it was freezing. .
There were some blankets, so me and this guy were sharing one, and cuddling . . (he was tipsy as well)
He put my legs on his lap and uhh
He put his hands between my thighs, and I didn't really think it was a big deal so I didn't stop him or anything. He was rubbing my legs . .  
I didn't care, until after wards, I started feeling guilty because I have a boyfriend .
I'm . . not even sure if that's considered cheating? I didn't do anything to him. . It was cuddling, but still ?
I'm a very jealous person myself, and if I knew my boyfriend was doing this behind my back, I'd get mad because I get mad over silly little things anyway . .
I just wanted to know other peoples' opinions because it's been bugging me . .



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mmmcookies


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Quote: from ilessthanthreeyouu at 3:53 pm on Oct. 6, 2008

A. If you have to ask, yes.
B. You shouldn't be cuddling with other boys when you have a boyfriend.

i totally agree


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Not a wise thing to get yourself so close to such temptation and even to tease a guy like that while you have a boyfriend. Personally, I wouldn't mention it and just leave it be. If the other guy tries to talk to you about it, just be upfront about it and apologize for leading him on. But if your boyfriend asks you... be prepared to talk to him about it.

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ijustdontknow

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It isnt really cheating but is it's right at all especially if you get mad at him for worse. I would be open and honest with your bf about and at take the consequences. Being tipsy is never an excuse to be disloyal and really I would consider that to be disloyal.

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runthespread


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I'd consider it a form a cheating.

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