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Fair to reject women who rejected you in the past?
Replies: 14Last Post Oct. 11 12:22pm by Anonymous
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Hello

Since I have been removed from highschool for years now, every now and then I'll encounter a girl from my class I went to highschool with. A lot of them back in the day thought they were too good for everyone and rejected guys like me. The other day I encountered one who used to piss me off constantly (not because she liked me) and she came up to me all happy and excited. I noticed she looked like hell and I found out she was a single mother. She gave me her telephone number without me asking and told me to call her.

I told her it would be best not to. She got pretty mad at this and asked why. I told her I have long since gotten over it, but back in the day when she was younger and more attractive she wouldn't of given me the time of day, but now that she's lost some of her charm she's being overly friendly with me. She tried to make me feel guilty by saying she was young and immature then (as lots of women say), but I don't buy it and I find that to be a convenient excuse for their past behavior. I think women know full well what their doing and reject decent guys when their young because they only want to be with all the star athletes and billy bad asses of the neighborhood. Then when they start to lose their looks and appeal they try sucking up to a more level headed guy they wouldn't of given the time of day to when they were younger. I think if women managed to keep their youth, they'd forever bang all the types of guys they claim not to "care about".

Thanks for reading and have a good one


7:15 am on Oct. 11, 2008
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Yes, it's fair. If they rejected you, and you turned into a hunk, then yes, you can reject them all you want. That is, unless you really still want to go out with the rejector.

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you, sir, did the right thing.

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well not all girls are like that, i dont like to be like that cuz i dont want that happening to me, .. i bet she is salty lol

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I think it's unfair to treat her that way. She asked for you to call her, not to marry her. It's not fair to hold a personal vendetta against this girl because she rejected you in HS. That's just bitter. Move on.

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That made me feel nice :)

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Quote: from Jadien at 7:20 am on Oct. 11, 2008

I think it's unfair to treat her that way. She asked for you to call her, not to marry her. It's not fair to hold a personal vendetta against this girl because she rejected you in HS. That's just bitter. Move on.

he is movin on by telling her no

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so by your strain of logic you'd date the ugly people who never were pretty in the past and did not reject you during their rein of pretty because they were never pretty enough to

do you wanna date ugly people only? because you need to swallow a whole load of shit to be around a pretty person

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 It's good that you are rejecting her. She's merely trying to hook up with you because well, now that she's a single mother and not as attractive anymore, she can't look lonely and desperate and so she decided to look for you. It's not even that she likes you; it's just that she needs to show people that even if she's a single mother she can still get someone.
 I don't get it though. Why did she want to give birth to the child then? She doesn't seem too happy about being a mother.

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Quote: from italianfire at 10:20 am on Oct. 11, 2008

Quote: from Jadien at 7:20 am on Oct. 11, 2008

I think it's unfair to treat her that way. She asked for you to call her, not to marry her. It's not fair to hold a personal vendetta against this girl because she rejected you in HS. That's just bitter. Move on.

he is movin on by telling her no


Moving on from what. A simple rejection back in the day? It's reeks of bitterness. It's not like she's like, "Hey. Call me so we can totally date and get married an la la la."



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She had high standards back then.

You have high standards now.

It's the same thing, really. Nobody is at fault, it's just destined not to work.

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it's fair :)

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Now it's you being the wanker. In this case 2 wrongs don't make a right...  

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I think its absolutely fair.  You can always claim you are young and immature now lol, just like she claimed.

Besides what comes around goes around

I think its completely true about what you said before too.  She is older now, and has a kid, looks have faded, so now she is perfectly fine being friendly to you.....  

It basically just gives her a taste of her own medicine.

Besides, what if you accepted her number, and starting hanging out and what not.  At that says is, hey you were a jerk to be before, its ok though.

I don't think it was a simple rejection like some of you claim, he said she pissed him off constantly.  

I think it just shows you are standing up for yourself, which is good.


12:22 pm on Oct. 11, 2008
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