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I hadn't thought about telling them all together. I think this would be the best option - to tell them all at once. I know I will start crying, and it will be emotional. and I think I will be better to do it ONCE, than three times. Thanks for your advice.

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To be honest, I strongly suggest you tell your boyfriend first with you two alone.  

There's a possibility that he may want to tell his mother himself, and you would just have to tell your mother.  Also, if he decides not to tell your mother, he can be with you for support when you tell both your mother and his.  

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Look up from the sidewalk.
Please.

My lover

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I love how you think you can go around popping out babies and expect your parents to take care of them.

LMAO! Slut!

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She's a slut for wanting to enjoy intimacy with the man she loves?

I'm sure OP can handle herself. GTFO.,

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I've got a feeling
That I was put here
For you

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I love how you think you can go around popping out babies and expect your parents to take care of them.

LMAO! Slut!

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Everybody needs help at one point or another in life. And I never said I would have my mother take care of my son or daughter, I said I am sure she would HELP. You know, there are ALOT of mothers who would kick their daughters out. I was simply stating that my mother is not this kind. And another thing, you can go ahead and call me a slut - but unlike many other teenage mothers, or teens who are expecting, my boyfriend and I have something serious. 1 year and 3 months is not alot, but it is enough to know. We also have good grades, and high expectancies for out futures. AND jobs. So you can call me what you want, I am just doing what's best for ME, and asking for advice. Your harsh words are unnecessary. And I don't go around "popping out babies." My boyfriend and I did not have sex until we were together 9 months. So excuse me.

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Quote: from The Horny B00bz at 3:37 pm on Oct. 12, 2008

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I love how you think you can go around popping out babies and expect your parents to take care of them.  

 LMAO! Slut!

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She's a slut for wanting to enjoy intimacy with the man she loves?

I'm sure OP can handle herself. GTFO.,

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Thanks blufindr, you're kind.

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Quote: from SAMMYJS99 at 3:24 pm on Oct. 12, 2008

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did she not say that she WILL keep the baby???

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If I were to keep the baby

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understood.

but she did not say no - yet.

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"The amount of fail on THEFORUM.COM is reaching epic proportions." - hughnon

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I love how you think you can go around popping out babies and expect your parents to take care of them.

LMAO! Slut!

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ur name should be "the horny noobz"

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Cherish = LW Italian bella ;). jenny w1971 = LW sexy freak.
"The amount of fail on THEFORUM.COM is reaching epic proportions." - hughnon

As for telling everyone I suggest you tell your boyfriend before anyone else.  Not only may he want to tell his family rather than you, but he may not feel comfortable that you told everyone else at the same time you told him.

If he doesn't believe you or just kind of avoids you at first thats pretty much just as normal as any other reaction.

Just know that having a baby is HARD on you.  You WILL be tired and you WILL get frustrated, but it's all worth it.  It costs a lot of money, but if you're both working full time you will be able to pull through.  Especially if you stay with your mom for now.  Don't let any idiot tell you that just because you live with your mother, or his, that you're not taking care of this child.  In fact don't worry about what anyone says to offend you.  You will end up getting a lot of crap for it.  Be it looks or words.. it happens no matter how good of a parent you are...  Remember, you are young.

If you'd like you can PM me.  I'll try to help however I can.

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Post edited at 9:26 am on Oct. 12, 2008 by Porkie