It's exhausting and some days I just want some time to myself, but I'm a freshman and I should be making friends and going out.
It would probably be harder to make friends if I commuted, but I feel like it would be more for me. I feel weird just saying to my roommate "im tired i need some me time"
Is it okay that I'm not putting an effort every single day to be social, don't get me wrong I hate when i do it, but I feel like I need to take baby steps and not overwhelm myself :(
10:18 am on Sep. 13, 2008
Z o E
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im a social retard.
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HangEmHigh
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There's nothing wrong with you. No-one would be able to go out every day and meet new people. Although you should be out a few times for your own benefit.
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miketheman14
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ok....whats the big deal about being social, why do you feel like you HAVE to go out and make friends all the time?
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420Mike
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That sounds like me, except my roommate doesn't understand and NEVER FUCKING LEAVES so whenever i'm there, he's there, and then I have to go to my car while they use my audio shit to play their fucking gay ass rockband.
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plumc0la
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Just say, you need time alone. Alone time is the best.
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Just say, you need time alone. Alone time is the best.
I would have no problem saying that to a best friend, but me and my roommate aren't that close and i feel like it would sound like that she's bothering me or something
10:27 am on Sep. 13, 2008
sadnessness
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i also am a social retard. i cant stand being around goofballs for more than about half an hour. No offence to my friends but they still laugh at the word "willy" half the time (theyre 16/17?!) and yeah... it just gets really hard to laugh along after a while cos im just like wtf? id rather have a conversation with my teachers lol
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Just say, you need time alone. Alone time is the best. 
